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I wanna start using a carabiner for my keys but I’m a gay trans man and I don’t wanna send the wrong message or co-opt lesbian culture
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Anonymous 12w

My dad uses a carabiner for his keys. Go for it

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Anonymous 12w

Dude it isn’t that deep. Outdoor nuts have been using carabiners since they were invented because they’re useful as hell, sometimes practicality comes before fashion and sometimes vice versa

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Anonymous 12w

I mean if you aren’t doing the code or decorating it to be obviously part of lesbian culture then it’s totally ok! Carabiners had a use before the code so it’s ok to still use them like that

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Anonymous 12w

I’m a gay trans man and use a carabiner for my keys and some keychains, yes I look like a lesbian but I don’t fucking care

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Anonymous 12w

Do you look like a cis man then? Bc you’ll probably confused lesbians if you can’t pass and look like a lesbian still…. But I don’t think it matters that much tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Thank you. Is decorating it to my personal style ok?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

You don’t have to decorate them for it to be lesbian culture

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

I just think it’s not that deep so why not get one 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I personally think that would be fine! I’d look on Pinterest for ideas and for things to avoid

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

Nobody cares what I have to say anyway so idc

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Anonymous 11w

They wouldn’t care if we did anyway

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Anonymous 11w

Well, no. There’s a rich culture and history behind it

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