LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | I’m bisexual and I was watching an old show and one of the characters was gay but I felt attracted to him is that bad in general? Like knowing a guy doesn’t like girls but still feeling attracted to him? I’ve never had this feeling before

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LGBTQIA+ 1d

I’m bisexual and I was watching an old show and one of the characters was gay but I felt attracted to him is that bad in general? Like knowing a guy doesn’t like girls but still feeling attracted to him? I’ve never had this feeling before

Anonymous 1d

That’s fine and common What’s not ok is trying to change someone’s sexuality so you can date/fuck them, but it’s a fictional character so that doesn’t apply

Anonymous 1d

I want to get to know the boundaries of other sexualities as well and I’m just not sure if what I feel is appropriate

Anonymous 1d

Just like don’t be creepy about it. Like is the fact that he’s gay and wouldn’t be attracted to you a turn on for you

Anonymous

OP 1d

It’s a fictional character, it’s fine. and even irl you cant control your feelings, just whether or not you act on them. With irl people just keep it to yourself and don’t get hung up on it. Let go of guilt, it doesn’t help. If anything it just makes it harder to be normal abt/cope w ur feelings. Just notice your feelings, acknowledge them, and let them move on.

Anonymous

#3 1d

It’s not a turn on tbh he’s just a really attractive and nice character I’m not thinking “I can turn him bi or straight” but I still feel weird for liking him in a certain way if he’s gay