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LGBTQIA+ 1w
this may be an unpopular opinion, but i genuinely would rather them hate me and talk about me than me being the one who’s unhappy. at the end of the day, they’re undoing themselves. you’re loved even if it’s not by the people you think
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Vent My mom just shared this post on Facebook and it fucking hurts because I know that she’ll never understand. She’s transphobic and has told me I’m not allowed to be gay. So I’ll be her straight daughter instead of the transmasc pansexual that I am.
269 upvotes, 12 comments. Sidechat image post by Anonymous in LGBTQIA+. "Vent My mom just shared this post on Facebook and it fucking hurts because I know that she’ll never understand. She’s transphobic and has told me I’m not allowed to be gay. So I’ll be her straight daughter instead of the transmasc pansexual that I am."
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Anonymous 1w

I wish it were that simple. I still live with her, she’s helping pay for my schooling. I have an out but it takes time and money that I don’t currently have. So I put up with it for now

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Anonymous 1w

Yeah real, I don’t have a choice I am who I am, the trick is just not getting caught

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

This is OP of that post btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

yeah. that makes sense. it takes a while to break down that parental barrier. i’m possibly about to get my first girlfriend, and they’re going to find out eventually.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I’ve been in a similar situation to #1 but as I grow older and the more and more independence I get I choose to spend time with people that I don’t have to explain myself around, theres hope, don’t let them take that from you

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