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LGBTQIA+ 1d

This is why trans men don’t like being friends with cis girls. Also you’re like a evil terf but still my point stands

LGBTQIA+ 2d

Trans men are (almost) always more respectful & less aggressive and threatening. Being socialized as a girl growing into a woman is so different than the reverse. Obvi not all trans women are like that, but it really is something that upsets me

Anonymous 1d

"socialized as a girl" ummm i wasn't socialized at all i was an autistic social reject and they treated me like an insect

Anonymous 1d

“Trans men are more respectful and less threatening then (real) cis men!! Because they were socialised as girls! (I see trans men as masculine women) they just understand what it’s like to be a woman (I don’t see them as men)”

Anonymous 1d

Wait till she sees how scary the “non threatening” trans men get when people attack our sisters

Anonymous 19h

“I’m not a TERF” she says after regurgitating transmisogynistic bullshit about socialization

Anonymous 1d

I grew up with the expectations of being a girl for like 10 years, but my parents raised respectful people, and my cis brother should end up about the same as me (when he’s done being a middle schooler)

Anonymous

OP 1d

“I hate all men! Except trans men of course! (I don’t view you as a man and think of you as just a woman who is weird)”

Anonymous

#1 1d

True and real 🫡 I never saw myself as a girl nor understood how I was a girl to everyone else until puberty when I realised eventually that I was perceived as a woman but also didn’t really care until I did. I never thought of myself as a girl or woman

Anonymous

OP 1d

These kinds of comments are ironically (unironically?) transphobic

Anonymous

OP 1d

I genuinely would rather people stand on their ideals and just hate all men instead of trying to say how trans men are inherently diffrent than cis men because they think we possess some deep inherent understanding of womanhood because a doctor looked at our baby genitals and said “wow that’s a girl!”

Anonymous

#2 1d

Explain

Anonymous

OP 1d

I’m also a trans man and do believe I grew up a girl and understand girlhood better than cis men at least, but holy shit you cannot make sweeping statements about all trans men 😭 and I would rather be seen as a man over a masculine woman any day even if that means being told I suck constantly

Anonymous

#1 1d

Agreed

Anonymous

OP 1d

And just to be clear (not saying you disagree, just throwing this out there for readers), even if a trans person DID think of themselves as their “pre transition gender,” that does NOT invalidate their current gender identity. People are just so rabid these days that trans people are forced to jump through hoops to prove their “purity” as the gender that they id as to cis people. Cis people aren’t interrogated this way about THEIR identity.

Anonymous

OP 1d

I would rather people don’t put people into black-and-white boxes and then paint them with a broad brush, period. I understand being angry and saying something like that in the heat of the moment, but when questioned, they should admit that the statement is not *literally* correct. Because it obviously isn’t.

Anonymous

OP 1d

I think theyre just a little slow and dont realize you made your comment quoting them in order to demonstrate their transphobia.. and they think theyre clever for realizing that your obvious example of transphobia is in fact transphobic.. lol