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LGBTQIA+ 16h
The topic of not having a girl bsf or boy bsf has to be a straight thing.
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Anonymous 16h

like let’s really talk about it bc it always strikes me as so weird isn’t it just your friend???

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Anonymous 16h

My ex BF had all other gay men as friends and I one of my girl friends said that it was weird. Like no actually I don’t think it is

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Anonymous 16h

People not having mixed friend groups has just always been such a weird thing to me. Like you’re fr gonna tell me you don’t surround yourself with all sorts of people? There’s something wrong with you if only one type of person can handle being your friend. My friend group is full of men, women, old folks, young folks, all over the sexuality spectrum, like wym you’re only friends with people exactly like you???

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

NO FR like can you not be loyal or is it a control thing?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 16h

NO FR me and my partner are lesbians we have like only female friends never once thought any of them were threats

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

like as a bisexual person would i just not be allowed to have any friends tf 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

however i did know a girl one time whose boyfriend didn’t want her having wlw friends because she was bi

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

That’s actually crazy cause ik his ass didn’t want her having guy friends either

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Anonymous replying to -> og_beer 16h

Okay so I will have to say I’m in a friend group of mostly women because I share interests which are primarily enjoyed by other woman (not saying a guy couldn’t enjoy them just saying more women do) I think it’s okay if you have a friend group that is similar to you because becoming friends means you have to have similar interests and from the outside looking in they might all be the same but when you are actually in the friend group there are actually a lot of difference.

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Anonymous replying to -> og_beer 16h

Now with that being said I think the strangest part is the idea of being forced to choose your friends based on something like gender that’s weird asf or having to choose ppl who can ONLY be interested in the opposite of your gender like we automatically will sleep with anyone who COULD be attracted to us

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

You say mostly bc you know it can exist in mixed company and that’s fine! Like the core of a friend group being women is one thing, and tbh pretty natural with how our society builds itself. Exclusively only being able to be friends with just women as a woman and purposefully excluding anyone else? That’s where the red flags come in

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

In my experience, the only people who care are the ones that can’t see their attracted gender group as anything other than sexual objects. And assume everyone else must view people the same way bc god forbid they’re the weird ones here. Everyone is a potential sex partner, and can’t be seen otherwise. And it’s usually socially implicated so not entirely their fault but also you’re an adult it’s time to unlearn some things

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Anonymous replying to -> og_beer 16h

I think too it’s a big insecurity thing and a big part control like I fear if you can’t handle your partner talking to other ppl regardless of things they can’t control you shouldn’t be in a relationship and should focus on healing yourself

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