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as a cis gay man, i don’t get it. TRANS MEN ARE MEN, WHAT on earth is the issue??
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Anonymous 4w

Before someone starts about genital preferences, those are fine!! That’s perfectly fine!! The problem is when there’s transphobia involved, or misogyny

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Anonymous 4w

I personally came out to my fraternity BECAUSE of a trans guy I had the hots for

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Anonymous 4w

i appreciate this so much, as a trans man, i face prejudice more often from cis gay men than i do from cis straight men!

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Anonymous 4w

As a gay bottom, idk. I’d just much rather date/have sex with a cis man. I do find SOME trans men attractive, but only physically not sexually. I wouldn’t get much sexual pleasure out of them and probably vice versa and that wouldn’t be fun for either of us. (Plz don’t grill me for this, just my personal opinion as to why I don’t)

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Anonymous 3w

Easiest yakarma farm ever

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Admittedly most cis men scare me but thats for unrelated issues and id still get dicked down by that man to this day

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

i’m so sorry you have to go through that man 🫂 i don’t share your experience because i’m cis so i don’t see what prejudices happen (except the ones my best friend shares as a trans man) but you have my support and sympathy, and you’re free to talk about your experiences if you want

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

This!! I realized I had to change my label from gay to bi because I only have a genital preference. I don’t care if you’re male or female. Regardless, trans men are men and trans women are women!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

If genital preferences are the issue, then more gay men would have no problem with dating pre-op trans women or post-op trans men. The truth is that this stems from seeing trans men as women, and denigrating them down to their genitals. Way too many people hide behind the ‘genital preferences’ excuse.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

exactly

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

as a trans man i actually don't think its as simple as that. people may have both presentation and genital preferences. a gay man might not be attracted to trans women, but still have a genital preference for penises.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

i'm a trans guy and i think you're completely fine honestly. i probably wouldn't get much out of sex with you considering the way that i tend to fuck people and honestly sometimes it just doesnt work out sexually and thats life. like thats being queer idk 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

nah did you see the original post?

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