Lowkey wish so much of queer culture wasn’t involving drinking or smoking or doing drugs cuz like i dont do any of that and i just like history; like can we make the library queer culture!
there's so many queer book clubs bro join a dnd campaign everyone there is nonbinary af
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Anonymous7w
at least among the people i hang out with we usually do a queer potluck once a week. we also make it a point that if we are going out to the club or bar that drinking and smoking are completely optional and not required
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Anonymous7w
There’s a historical reason, but near major American cities there’s way more low key events like reading/cafe/swap meets lol
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Anonymous7w
This depends a lot on your city - my local lesbian bar does a “silent reading night” lmao
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Anonymous7w
I feel this way too — I got sucked into nightlife/drug culture because I had no other way to have a queer community and it fucked up my life. It’s ultimately why I’ve abandoned most of the community and my identity with it
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Anonymous#27w
I live Oklahoma 💔
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Anonymous#17w
Lucky you 💔 my city is literally only gay clubs cuz its very red
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AnonymousOP7w
I live in Oklahoma too, there are a lot of queer groups on FB and insta that don’t involve partying, I promise
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Anonymous#37w
If you can make it to Oklahoma City, there’s lots more to do outside of clubbing I think