LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | this weekend I’m hanging out (and maybe more) with a really cute, classically gay guy I met at college. I’m bi but don’t really give gay vibes, and I’m worried I’ll come off as “too straight.” is this actually an issue or am I dumb? opinions welcome.

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this weekend I’m hanging out (and maybe more) with a really cute, classically gay guy I met at college. I’m bi but don’t really give gay vibes, and I’m worried I’ll come off as “too straight.” is this actually an issue or am I dumb? opinions welcome.

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Anonymous 2w

Honestly I more so dislike men (gay, bi, etc.) who act “too gay”, if that makes sense. Like forcing it I guess. As long as it’s clear to me that I’m not being used as an experiment idc what my partner appears to be to others

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Anonymous 2w

Nope be yourself,

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Anonymous

#1 2w

I don’t want to code switch or be disingenuous so I’m glad it’s not a big issue, I just hope he likes me 🤞

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