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tips on how to find self confidence while being more masc? i forced myself to be femme most of my life, caring too much what people thought, and i want to still feel pretty/sexy/attractive but i don’t know how to “dressup”/feel like that without beingfem

Anonymous 5w

idk why i added the quotations it was unnecessary but oh well

Anonymous 5w

Don’t know if this’ll help, but try just dressing up in different ways looking in the mirror. If a particular outfit choice sparks even the slightest amount of joy then take that joy and revel in it. Don’t know if that makes sense at all, but it’s how I learned i like glasses, zip-up hoodies, and suits and how I found my favorite hair style and length, though for me it was more luck than actively seeking it out. This is coming from a cis????????het man btw, if that means anything

Anonymous

#1 5w

huh, yeah! thats really good advice, thank you! i think that can be done in every aspect of figuring yourself out too!