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LGBTQIA+ 2w
I don’t know what I am. For a while I’ve thought I’m pan but now it’s like I go between wanting a relationship and thinking I might be aro/ace. Idk if that’s normal, idk what to think of it. Anybody got advice?
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Anonymous 2w

Well question back at ya: do you want the label for yourself or do you feel like you have to have one?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I don’t know, having a label would be easier for explanation but at the same time I feel like it has expectations if that makes sense.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

I understand. If you want a label then it’ll come to you over time, but you don’t have make your identity palatable for others to meet “expectations”. You are who you are, have pride in that and honestly if someone isn’t willing to try to understand then f em

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Yea that makes sense, thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Anytime :)

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