
Thanks but I do feel like I know myself! I’m poly and kinky and I plan to keep experimenting with new people and kinks for the rest of my life. I do feel what you are saying though because when I thought I was cis and locked into comphet relationship I felt trapped- like I would never get to learn who I want to be or what I even like. I’m not saying that everyone should be poly- but I do think even people who seek monogamy should prioritize knowing their own person and desires.