Anonymous #1 13h

Yes I’d love to have bars and events specifically for sapphic women. And I mean trans men are men and sometimes I want to just be around women yk

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Anonymous OP 13h

Well some trans men aren’t binary? Do you mean events specifically for lesbian women? There’s nonbinary lesbians too

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Anonymous #1 13h

Nonbinary is fine ? But how are you a man but also not bianary I’m confused

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Anonymous OP 13h

It’s easier for me to call myself a trans man while being not super binary because it explains my lived experience better

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Anonymous #1 13h

I get that! But I think that it’s ok SOMETIMES not all the time but sometimes to have events and spaces for people who identify as women And then also sometimes nonbinary people as well but women do often deal with like basically since we are the minority we are expected to take on other minorities. It’s ok to have stuff just for the girls sometimes that’s all I’m saying

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Anonymous OP 13h

But then make a women’s space. Not lesbian. Because not all lesbians are women

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Anonymous #1 12h

All lesbians are women or nonbinary/fluid Also they literally never said it was for lesbians they said just wlw women

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Anonymous #2 12h

You do know fluid includes being a man right. I need you to know that

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Anonymous #2 12h

There are genderfluid and trans men lesbians as well.

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Anonymous #3 11h

Why would you call yourself a lesbian if you are a trans man….

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Anonymous OP 11h

Trans men are men and therefore I am not interested in dating them as a lesbian

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Anonymous #3 11h

That’s totally fine, and when they are identifying as men I just want to have spaces for wlw. Why is that so fucking problematic bro I don’t understand why we can’t just get spaces for women like jfc

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Anonymous #1 11h

Literally everyone knows that😭

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Anonymous OP 10h

Cool, there are still trans men who are lesbians and nothing you say or think will change that.

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Anonymous #3 10h

Dude if you are a male u aren’t a lesbian what are you talking about this is either transphobic or wildly sexist and denying what being a lesbian is

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Anonymous #2 10h

Male man whatever yk what I mean

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Anonymous #2 10h

So people who are male can’t be lesbians?

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Anonymous #1 10h

NO😭😭😭😭like men can’t be lesbian because lesbian is women who are attracted to WOMEN

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Anonymous #2 10h

But nonbinary people can be lesbians

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Anonymous #2 10h

It’s neither. There are trans men who have community ties that will never be undone or replaced and who still resonate with being lesbian. They’re valid as both men and lesbians, even if you don’t understand it.

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Anonymous #1 10h

NONBIANRY PEOPLE ARENT MEN 😭😭 THEY ARE NONBINARY

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Anonymous #2 10h

YOU JUST SAID LESBIANS ARE ONLY WOMEN

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Anonymous #3 10h

No. I’m sorry but if you identify as a man you are NOT a lesbian because lesbians are not attracted to men!! This is why people don’t believe lesbians when they say that they don’t like men. This is ridiculous, genuinely.

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Anonymous #2 10h

Non-cis men loving non-cis men who identify with the label “lesbian” are lesbians. That’s a better approach to it. Plenty of lesbians are not women.

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Anonymous #1 10h

NO I DIDNT DINGBAT. LISTEN

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Anonymous #3 10h

Ok right I’m not falling for this fucking rage bait anymore. I can’t stand people who won’t just leave lesbians the fuck alone. Are you a lesbian?

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Anonymous #2 10h

Why are you lying 💀

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Anonymous #2 10h

It’s not rage bait, it’s basic decency and understanding of the complexities of the lesbian community. If you actually engaged with lesbians and the broader community, ESPECIALLY offline, you’d know this stuff.

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Anonymous #2 10h

Trans men lesbians exist whether you want them to or not. The only ridiculous comments are yours, denying an entire history.

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Anonymous #3 10h

I don’t need to “engage” w them I AM ONE

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Anonymous #2 10h

And you clearly know nothing about your own community because you don’t engage with it. Being lesbian doesn’t mean you’re capital L Lesbian, involved in the community. You should fix that.

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Anonymous #2 6h

Breathe bby… if lesbian A is dating butch B who transitions to become a man is lesbian A not a lesbian anymore?

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