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LGBTQIA+ 1d
Any tips for dealing with internalized homophobia and internalized bottom shaming?? Because some days I still do hate that I’m queer and a bottom
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Anonymous 1d

Gonna be real. You don’t date yet. You have to heal from that not just so you can be a good partner, but also so you don’t end up in a toxic or even abusive relationship just trying to date thinking it’ll help you get over it

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Anonymous 1d

Give yourself some grace. Don’t be upset with yourself for feeling that way. The queer community is full of people who are struggling to differentiate or accept the differences in what they want and what society wants us to want. You are not alone.

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Anonymous 16h

bottoms make the world go round, spread that hole 🕳️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Yeah I’m not necessarily looking to date right now. I know I need to heal, but I just don’t know how

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Therapy, supportive friend groups, being around other queer people irl, etc

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