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LGBTQIA+ 2d

When I say I use “any pronouns” I don’t mean she/her. I mean he/she/they/it/xi/gleeb/glorb

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Anonymous 2d

See and that’s why DON’T say I use all pronouns! I use they/he/she and not neopronouns. But then everyone asks why I don’t just say all and I have to explain.

Anonymous 1d

meaning no disrespect but what’s the point of saying all pronouns if you aren’t going to like when people use the ones that are easiest to them

Anonymous 23h

I feel this, I tell people I use all pronouns and appreciate it when people use all pronouns for me. But no matter what I do people understand “all pronouns “ as she/her or whatever they think my gender is

Anonymous 21h

ur real for that

Anonymous

#2 1d

Because it’s still hurtful to give people ALL the options in the entire language and they return no effort to you. In another way, I assume you like multiple foods, right? If you said “hey I like ravioli and also lasagna” and people ONLY served you ravioli for every single meal, it would get exhausting. If you heard “well I think you don’t look like you enjoy lasagna, so I don’t believe you. So I’ll just give you ravioli” frequently, you’d get tired of it.

Anonymous

#1 1d

so essentially what you’re saying is that “any pronouns” actually means that you have a weighted preference across multiple pronouns and want to see a flatter use distribution rather than a spiky one favoring “vanilla” pronouns like “her”?

Anonymous

#2 20h

Yes exactly!