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How did you guys come out to your friends? I’m thinking of a cake that says “I like girls or something”
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Anonymous 8w

biggest tip is: the energy you give is the energy you get back! it’s like announcing a pregnancy. if you’re nervous and unsure, the reaction will be nervous and unsure. if you’re THRILLED like “I’M PREGNANT!! HOORAY!!!” then they’ll reflect that too! i did an ice cream cake and balloons and music, like a surprise party

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Anonymous 8w

This is a hot take but I think that we shouldn’t have to “come out” we should just do our own thing and let others catch on because honestly why are we having to explain ourselves like let’s just love who we love with no explanation

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Anonymous 8w
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Anonymous 8w

Honestly I just talk abt it like I would if i were straight

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Anonymous 8w

I just casually told them yeah I’m bi or I’ll causally mention a past girlfriend and boyfriend. In my opinion I like it being a chill thing unless Im actually not sure of their reaction

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Anonymous 8w

Been trying to figure this out with having to tell my sister I'm genderfluid

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Anonymous 8w

When you come up with a strategy, lmk. still trying to come out to my best friend after years of actively pretending to be straight

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Anonymous 8w

We sitting infront of a notable cathedral in my area and he was scrolling his hinge, I opened mine and saw it was all guys, didn’t really try to hide it

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Anonymous 8w

I came out in highschool to my friends by telling them “I’m dating someone and they’re not a boy” (jokes on me, he’s trans and I’m nonbinary, neither one of us were girls lmao)

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Anonymous 8w

posted the bi flag on my story on ig and changed my pronouns everywhere

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

I feel like my strategy is to just be normal. I’m a goofy person so that’s why I kinda wanted to make a like a joke of it with the cake but ig didn’t have to be so serious yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 8w

I’m really only coming out to my best friends. Idc about everyone else because I agree

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

Wait that’s so smart. Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

go in with confidence! i’m so happy for you!!!!

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