LGBTQIA+ on Sidechat | help me im confused.. i was born a female, have always identified as a woman, and im bisexual. but lately i’ve realized that sometimes i want to be a man and when i imagine that i only see myself as a gay man who prefers being the top

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LGBTQIA+ 5w

help me im confused.. i was born a female, have always identified as a woman, and im bisexual. but lately i’ve realized that sometimes i want to be a man and when i imagine that i only see myself as a gay man who prefers being the top

Anonymous 5w

hey, looks like its time for (drumroll) the imagination games!! 1. imagine your life as a man, then imagine it as you are now. try to go into details, how would you perform daily tasks? how would you enjoy things? what would you do? if you feel happier imagining life as a male, thats something to consider!

Anonymous 5w

Gender can be fluid. Or just not neat boxes. Roll with it. I’m genderqueer, maybe genderfluid and have similar thoughts. The lady I’m dating says similar shit to you. She’s genderqueer too. It doesn’t have to be one or the other, or can always be a sometimes thing.

Anonymous

#1 5w

2. imagine you can wake up as the gender you are questioning you are, spend your entire day that way, then come back and see a button on your bed that changes you back to your assigned gender at birth, would you press it, or stay that way forever?

Anonymous

#1 5w

3. imagine a life with someone you love, imagine taking care of them with all types of gender roles and presentations, how you love, how you act when you take care of someone vs being taken care of, do you feel your relationship with them is more fulfilling to you when acting out the gender roles of male, androgynous, or female?

Anonymous

#2 5w

If you get a craving to do or not do X gendered thing, go with the vibes or feelings. Follow it, and you’ll swing hard outside where you are, then settle to where you get less gendery feelings. Thats wha happened for me and the lady I’m with. I wear makeup, sometimes dresses, and makeup. She doesn’t shave, boxers, masc colors,/clothing, boxes, no makeup, and we just vibe. Some days I feel more masc or she feels more femme. And it’s just.. bleh. When you go with it you find a point of happy.