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LGBTQIA+ 7w
I tend to have uncontrollable rage when my sister and people in general make comments that I “am not a real man” and compares me and my job to being “less manly”. For contact I’m a cis hetero guy.
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Anonymous 7w

I really despise that my manhood of manliness is often brought into question all because I do not do manual labor.

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Anonymous 7w

how do other people have fragile masculinity for you???

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Anonymous 7w

To a lot of people my sexual orientation is a joke and it is a sign of weakness. Which is annoying

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

*or manliness

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

I also get a lot of comparison to her stepson (who works in construction) or to my uncles (who also do construction) and get drunk at every possible moment.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

sounds toxic as hell. actually, comparing someone to others is textbook toxic behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

I don’t mean to be rude but how? You said you are hetero? I’m just trying to understand

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

great question

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

Hi I will clarify. I am gay. But according to people in my family my sexuality makes me “less of a man” or me “wanting to be a woman” or is something of fascination/entrtnmnt

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