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lesbians 8w
Am I the only lesbian that doesn’t have much experience? I feel like every time I see one on social media they’re kissing and hooking up with random girls and/or have dated/flirted with a whole lot of people
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Anonymous 8w

no cause same 😭 im turning 20 and still haven’t had my first kiss. it’s so hard finding a gf

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Anonymous 8w

i think the lesbian community is actually pretty evenly split among the constant hook ups crowd and the zero experience at all crowd

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Anonymous 7w

OMG i’m always seeing this too and I’m still a virgin and i’ve only had one serious relationship! Makes me really nervous about being inexperienced

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Anonymous 8w

I feel it’s sometimes like a new mindset for people. I’m hesitant to put a rainbow flag on my jacket let alone start hooking up with people left and right

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Anonymous 8w

real… it gives me so much anxiety. at this point i feel like i missed the window where it’s acceptable to not have any experience, so i’m too anxious to pursue anyone, but that just makes it worse 😭 vicious cycle from hell

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Sameee but I’m 19. I’ve had like one real girlfriend 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Same 😭 I had one gf but we never even held hands, it was one sided and just overall not the best experience. It’s just so frustrating because I want a gf so bad but I feel like no one likes me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Literally I had the same experience. It’s also that my area lacks lesbians and the few there are I lack the flirting skills to get them or they’re taken😭 I just don’t know how some lesbians manage to find a bunch of people to date, like maybe I’m not looking in the right spot?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

No literally same. either they’re all taken or I can’t tell their wlw. It also doesn’t help that I look straight 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

Me too! 24 and zero experience with anyone, not even kissing. It sucks out here

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

truly does 😭 i’ll turn 26 soon and i’ve only been kissed by a very confused man lol… At this point, I think i’d only feel safe with someone on the same boat. It’s like people don’t even consider it possible not to have experience past high school

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

Literally like I feel the next person I date is gonna think im strange for not ever having done anything before😭

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