when i thought i was bi i used to loveee the attention boys would give me. who doesn’t like feeling pretty and wanted? but then i would go on dates with them and never want anything intimate. i literally had a guy tell me i treated him too much like a friend. but when i had crushes on girls i’d get sweaty, nervous, stutter, and i genuinely calculated every interaction i’d have. i never daydreamed that way about men.

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if boys dont make you blushy and nervous it sounds like youre a lesbian

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For me i can find men attractive BUT i am not attracted to them. There is a difference. Like the difference between finding a picture pretty vs wanting to put it in your house.

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For me ( and take everything I say with salt im new) I’ve had boys make me blush and stuff but I’ve never gone home and kept thinking about them.

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