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Okay.. idk if this is a safe space for a baby gay but I’m like curious if I’m actually bi or I’m just pretending and I’m actually a lesbian. How did yall know y’all were a lesbian?
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Anonymous 2w

I like physical things with men, but I have all the warm stomach feelings with women

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Anonymous 11h

wanna add that you dont need to pick a label off the bat and its okay to change your mind! this is gonna sound controversial but hear me out: labels are tools we use to help us find community and ppl w/ shared experiences, not inflexible definitions we lock ourselves in. anyone who believes that the gayest gay man and the most sapphic lesbian only like their sex is implying that you can id someones gender by looking at them (which we know isnt true)

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Anonymous 2w

When I was with a man I always wanted him to be a woman. I like their touch and voice and body everything better

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Anonymous 2w

I broke up with my boyfriend when I realised and we are still amazing friends that love having deep conversations and we like hugging and we have kissed, but it is wayyy different than kissing a woman

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Anonymous 2w

I can’t love him the way I love a woman

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Anonymous 2w

I had this longing for something more than he could give. It was hard, but we both knew it was for the best so we can get what we truly want and are able to love completely without wanting more. To be happy and satisfied

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Anonymous 4h

When I cuddled with a guy, I spent the entire time wishing he was a woman. And when we kissed, it felt wrong to me, almost like I was gross myself for doing it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 11h

youre not pretending, youre just figuring it out. take your time, youve got this 🧡🤍🩷

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