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Okay.. idk if this is a safe space for a baby gay but I’m like curious if I’m actually bi or I’m just pretending and I’m actually a lesbian. How did yall know y’all were a lesbian?
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Anonymous 13w

When I cuddled with a guy, I spent the entire time wishing he was a woman. And when we kissed, it felt wrong to me, almost like I was gross myself for doing it

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Anonymous 15w

I like physical things with men, but I have all the warm stomach feelings with women

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Anonymous 13w

wanna add that you dont need to pick a label off the bat and its okay to change your mind! this is gonna sound controversial but hear me out: labels are tools we use to help us find community and ppl w/ shared experiences, not inflexible definitions we lock ourselves in. anyone who believes that the gayest gay man and the most sapphic lesbian only like their sex is implying that you can id someones gender by looking at them (which we know isnt true)

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Anonymous 15w

I can’t love him the way I love a woman

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Anonymous 15w

When I was with a man I always wanted him to be a woman. I like their touch and voice and body everything better

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Anonymous 15w

I broke up with my boyfriend when I realised and we are still amazing friends that love having deep conversations and we like hugging and we have kissed, but it is wayyy different than kissing a woman

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Anonymous 15w

I had this longing for something more than he could give. It was hard, but we both knew it was for the best so we can get what we truly want and are able to love completely without wanting more. To be happy and satisfied

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Anonymous 10w

I was never with a man to figure out I didn’t like them, but for me, I just know bc I don’t have to THINK about if I like women, I just like them and it’s a primal feeling. No thinning necessary. But with men, I would have to THINK about if I liked them or not and when I thought I found a that attractive, it was only bc I was excited about fitting in, I didn’t think about HIM. And it was objectively attractive men, not men I FELT attraction to. Someone can be attractive without you being

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

youre not pretending, youre just figuring it out. take your time, youve got this 🧡🤍🩷

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12w

🥹🫶🏾 thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

Wait, but the most gay ppl DO only like their sex. Thats the whole point

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

Attracted to them. It’s easier if you don’t think and you just feel. The answers are all inside of you and your heart and sexuality.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

*thinking *man. Fuck I hate this typing system.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 10w

did you watch the show tamar

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

No, why?

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