
Wait I don’t understand why you’re acting like there’s a “lesbian handbook” or something. Have you dated men before and had a feel for when you wanted to start taking things seriously?? It’s probably complex and different for everyone right? An individual thing and the time is right with everyone at different points, right?? So why are you acting like lesbians don’t live real, complex, and individualized lives? You ask her when you’re ready and the time feels right. This is not a thing that’s