lesbians on Sidechat | Being a femme lesbian while low key being masculine at heart is so odd. All my lesbian big sisters(role models) are butches and every character I relate to is usually masculine. Some could say I act masculine. But I dress like a princess. It’s odd.

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lesbians 13h

Being a femme lesbian while low key being masculine at heart is so odd. All my lesbian big sisters(role models) are butches and every character I relate to is usually masculine. Some could say I act masculine. But I dress like a princess. It’s odd.

Anonymous 8h

Girl I’m like this too. I don’t realize it until I’m with my straight friends

Anonymous

#1 8h

NO RIGHT. YOU GET IT.

Anonymous

OP 7h

Then I’m like can I even call myself a femme

Anonymous

#1 7h

I wonder the same to be honest But my relationship with my own femininity and the way I present myself and as well as my role within the lesbian community it’s like that’s just who I am I guess 😭

Anonymous

OP 7h

I’m always worried tho. Bc some ppl look at me like so u are wearing semi girly clothes one day the next u find u in jorts and a t. Then if I told a masc that would they still consider me a femme or not

Anonymous

#1 7h

It's so much of what other people think of your gender performance rather what you think of your own gender performance. My own gender performance is definitely femme I would say and so is yours. It doesn't really matter what other people say. But yeah it does feel feel ironic and almost poster syndrome:(

Anonymous

OP 7h

Thank you for that

Anonymous

#1 7h

Of course twin :))