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lesbians 19h
Fell in love with a girl that was long distance she made me feel seen and happy but my mental health was bad for the last couple weeks of August and I didn’t realize how it was effecting her till she told me last night so I said I would do better but v
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Anonymous 19h

This morning she sent me a text just cutting me off on all platforms with out another word she was supposed to come visit me next weekend and I was going to ask her to be my girlfriend I have the basket ready and everything I’m so distraught I don’t know what to do

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Anonymous 19h

I didn’t even get to fight for her to stay she was just gone

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Anonymous 19h

omg i'm so sorry that sounds horrible but also if your mental health is really that bad you should also focus on getting better🫶

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Anonymous 10h

If she would leave over a few weeks of hardship due to mental health she probably wasnt the right one

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

It was just trying to get back into routine moving back to college

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

I was having trouble getting the energy to go out instead of laying in bed

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

yeah i get that and it's really sad that she blocked you but still you should at least try to focus on yourself and maybe you will find back together and even if not then maybe it just doesn't fit. also if your mental health tends to get bad and she can't really handle that or if it's also bad for her then that's not healthy either...

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

also kinda shitty that she just cut you off cause that's also a lack of communication, i mean if she can't handle your mental health problems that's obviously fine but then she should've definitely said that before...

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

Yea that is very true just being cut off and not being able to say anything or talk about it fucking sucks

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

yeah definitely, it's also not good to be with someone if they can't communicate and just practically run away, like she could've at least said something and not just block you but have an actual conversation

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