Also, is that an insult? To a girl? He looks like girl, but you’re a girl, and she’s a girl, so looking like girl is a bad thing? Or, is it because this male finds him attractive, and has a toxic masculinity reaction - must insult this KPop guy’s masculinity, looks like girl. Sorry, that’s such a stupid reaction from other people, it drives me nuts.

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“he looks like a girl”. me, a whole ass lesbian: “i know. that’s kinda the point.” but at the same time that can be so emasculating and sexist because it infantilizes them (using girl vs woman) and implies that looking feminine is an insult (hypermasculine standards,, yippee.)

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