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it’s so weird to me when people talk about wanting to fuck idols 😭 like that’s just so creepy I’m uncomfortable
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Anonymous 1w

People downvoting and disagreeing but I agree. I think being attracted to them is totally fine but a lot of fans take it way too far. Like why am I seeing people writing pure smut fanfics about their faves??? Keep your sexual fantasies about a stranger to yourself please

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Anonymous 4d

I just always think that if I see a post that others make about idols that makes me uncomfortable, it must make them uncomfortable too. That’s why I would never post anything that could possibly be seen by them and make them uncomfortable because that is NOT the intention.

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Anonymous 1w

I’m also only attracted to men and only stan girl groups so maybe that’s my bias

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Anonymous 1w

it’s part of their job for ppl to wanna fuck them, i don’t see the issue

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

They’re musicians and performers and a lot of them are children 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

ok obviously im not talking abt minors💀 and visuals are typically p important for idols so idk what ur trying to argue

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

You can think someone is visually appealing without wanting to fuck them 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

why not both?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

It’s just really creepy to talk publicly about that when that’s like a real person who you do not know and is probably seeing that 😭 especially when it’s talking about specific features or comparing members but that’s a whole conversation of its own

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

calling normal reactions “creepy” lmao sure

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Oh my god dude just get play irl you spending so much energy defending this is making you sound like such a fucking loser 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

i have gotten play irl but that’s none of ur business anyway. i just hate puritanical attitudes like this

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

“Puritanical” and I said making sexually explicit remarks about strangers is weird

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

strangers who are also attractive celebrities who publicly act sexy and say/do plenty of suggestive things but ok

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Rapist mentality wtf

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

…ain’t no way you actually believe kpop thirsting is anything like rape. pls tell me ur not actually that insane🙏

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

btw this is what i mean by puritanical; making two kinds of “sexuality” seem equally harmful and worthy of condemnation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Okay but same lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4d

That’s what I’m saying. I see so many of these posts and cringe think about how that is a real person who it’s about 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Making unwanted sexual comments about a stranger and saying they actually want it because they give fan service (which most often they are contractually obligated to do) it’s really disgusting. And yes it is a rapist mindset. Acting “hot” doesn’t give you permission to make vile sexual comments about someone you do not know.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

im not just talking abt fan service and there’s nothing vile abt wanting to fuck. these idols know that that’s how fans are going to react, it has nothing to do with any justifications made for assault

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4d

censorship bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Dude what are you on about

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

It most certainly does. There is really 0 excuses for unprovoked sexually explicit comments about strangers

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

it’s wayyyy more “provoked” than sa but alright

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

if ppl don’t like smut then just don’t read it. doesn’t mean it shouldn’t exist

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

Nothing wrong w smut dude, I love it. I just do think it’s weird to be writing it about a real person and posting it publicly. Imagine it was you and some random person wrote about all the things they want you to do to them in detail like it’s real. If you wanna do that stuff just keep it to yourself it’s creepy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

it wouldn’t make sense for it to be me, im not a public figure who makes sexual songs, thirst trap posts, or does sexy choreo for my fans’ entertainment

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

That doesn’t equate to wanting smut to be written about them by strangers though. I’m sorry but this is rapist mentality, it’s giving oh she definitely wanted it because she was wearing a sexy outfit and flirting w me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

smut is nowhere near rape, idk why ur making this comparison

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Never said it was. But the mentality is similar. Assuming they want sexual behavior from strangers because they are attractive and do “sexy dances” is weird asf to say. Their job is entertainment not sex work. And if you find them sexy and wanna fuck them and have sexual fantasies about them it’s not inherently wrong I just think it’s weird to make up storylines about them doing sexual things to you and posting it online. I’m literally just saying keep it to yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

idols set the tone tho, and smut is just fantasies written into stories. do you have a problem with other kinds of fanfic being shared? what if they’re abt murder, abuse, or smth else awful? imo it’s just stories, and if the inspo is finding someone hot bc they repeatedly make themselves hot that’s perfectly fine

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

not to mention smut helps ppl express themselves and figure out what they’re into, especially if the smut relates to other things they’re already interested in, like artists

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

I don’t think it’s fair to say that someone’s freedom of expression extends past someone’s rights to not have fictional sexual fantasies about them all over the internet.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

what’s wrong with fantasies being around the internet? and how come you only have an issue when it’s sexual?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Cause it’s creepy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

that’s a nice little opinion

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Making a quote post with comments off when you realize nobody is on ur side 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

wasn’t me, i was the one who reposted the repost ;) but nice try

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Nice try is so corny

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Getting upvotes because people can’t see the original post btw

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

wdym they can’t see it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

As in they don’t click the post to look at the original and just read what’s on their screen before upvoting

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

ppl can look at it if they want to, i only reposted the quote post bc comments were off

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Doesn’t mean people are

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Hey so actually I'm the one that quoted and yes people can see the original post. I have comments off because I'm not about to debate your stupidity, nor will I here. You seem extremely young with the logic you're using and you have no business being in fandom spaces if you cannot even comprehend the concept of fanworks. Have the day you deserve.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

Are you actually dumb. People can see it on your post, not the quote of the quote.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 18h

Have the day you deserve as well! Sexual offenders don’t do well in prison keep that in mind

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Apparently you're the dumb one, since I'm not a sex offender but you an ignorant troglodyte! You need to learn what actually gets put people on a list and what normal fucking desires are.

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