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Jewish 1w
any advice on how to start looking for secular jewish gf? now that i’m graduated from college, chabad on campus doesn’t seem right. respect to the frum but im not; having a culturally jewish gf is important to me. where’s a good place to look?
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Anonymous 1w

if you’re 20-24 and live in PA…. dms open lol

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Anonymous 1w

if ur close to a city they do young professionals like shabbots. heard from my mom but im still in school so ive never been

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Anonymous 1w

Probably would get involved in a temple. They often have a 20-30s group

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

prob is the temples around me are far too frum. the one reform one i’ve been at is lacking in young people

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Damn rip

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

That’s the hard part. If you go reform no young people will be there but if you go conservative the young people may be too intense

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

yeah campus chabad was goated for this reason. young people don’t go reform bc reform synagogues lowkey larp a lot of the times

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Idk what that means

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

the reform synogogue by me feels like a church and they literally get called “saint r****’s” by a lot of people as a joke

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Is that gonna get your a specifically secular Jewish person tho? I feel like they’re less likely to be at temple

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Sometimes at the social groups and volunteering yes. Less so during actual services

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Idk what word you’re censoring but I see what you mean. Mine is pretty good tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1w

all frum people LOL

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

at young professionals, they are not all frum lmao. a large portion of us who attend where i live are not even close to frum.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1w

also jgrads is an option. again, not everyone who attends is frum. many of my friends go and they are reform or conservative.

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