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Men, women: Is it a red flag if the moment you come home to do your hobbies (which you haven’t done in over 3 months), and your girl says “your not spending enough time with me”, even when I text and call during the day?
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Anonymous 1w

hmm it depends. texting and calling definitely isnt the same as seeing your partner 1:1. you get to actually see their face and smile, hug them and kiss them, and just enjoy being with them. but it can definitely come off a certain way when you have hobbies and activities you want to do possibly alone. i’d say just be open to her about what you want to do, whether that’s spend time to yourself and then hang with her or something else. i’m sure both of you would benefit from being open with each

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Anonymous 3d

Nah not a red flag, she’s valid. I’d say it’d be different if u were spending time with her 24/7 and you couldn’t be able to do one thing by urself

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Anonymous 6d

texting and calling throughout the day is no where near the same as spending time together. she wants to see you! go get some flowers and her fav snacks/candy, and surprise her with a movie night at her place, she’ll love it!! i completely understand the hobbies part, just explain that you have things that you love to do, and would like to incorporate them into your life. she has hobbies i assume, relate it to those. just make sure she knows she’s still important and u love her 💘

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

other, so that miscommunications don’t interfere later on. and so that neither of you feel hurt or misunderstood 🫶🏽

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