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Unpopular opinion ig I hate the titles “birth giver” “cis women” “chest feeder” why can’t I just be a women…
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Anonymous 19h

i’m afraid i don’t see your argument with “cis woman”. it’s a real term. the other two i do understand though, since they’re more objectifying and describing a woman just as things she’s “supposed” to do.

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Anonymous 18h

no one is making you go by any of these… “i dont like bean soup” ahh post

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Anonymous 21h

“A women” opinion invalidated

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Anonymous 18h

I agree tbh. Chest feeder sounds fucking gross. And if I can’t be identified as anything other than what I’m expected to do thennnn that’s a problem

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Anonymous 17h

I feel like terms such as these dehumanize women and the process of birth

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Anonymous 17h

Ive only ever heard birth giver being used by people who have estranged moms, so unless your kids are no contact, you’re probably fine there

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Anonymous 17h

i’ve never heard any of those except cis women, which is a normal term…

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Anonymous 15h

cis woman and trans woman are just adjectives for woman. I've only seen birth giver and chest feeder are so ridiculous they're used for irony. Why is this an issue?

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Anonymous 17h

*woman, woman = singular vs women = plural. And you are a beautiful WOMAN!

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Anonymous 17h

No, your real for that. People are just so opinionated today😥

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Anonymous 11h

Always blame the Leftists. You see, too much of anything is a bad thing. However, it is possible to be “too” progressive. That’s why in their pursuit to be as progressive as possible they end going down the path of dehumanizing mothers and fathers, ESPECIALLY mothers.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 19h

Ohh I see a small grammatical error 😅but I don’t think that invalidates the overall claim

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15h

Tf does bean soup have to do with this

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 15h

someone posts about liking bean soup and all of the comments are “ew i hate bean soup”, the posts, in this case identifiers, just arent for them and therefor dont have to engage with it whatsoever

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

If you’re talking about the person who just gave birth, that’s a birth giver. If they’re chest feeding…

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

Chest feeder is used in a medical context to refer to someone of unknown gender who is actively chest feeding.

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 12h

this is not a hill worth dying on since the terms aren’t commonly used in a medical setting anyways, and they’re not used because many (understandably) find them objectifying, including trans people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12h

But I’ve never had bean soup before

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 12h
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Anonymous replying to -> #15 12h

But men can have breast too, actually it’s quite common and literally refers to organs on a human body? I don’t mean this in a anti-lgbtq+ way I’m just very curious because my neurodivergent brain is not understanding the logic behind this

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 11h

No you’re completely right. Breast is the correct medical term. Which both men and women have. It’s actually quite weird people want to remove the term breast like they’re erasing men having breasts from reality. Wait until “chestfeeder” advocates find out about male breast cancer

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

Dw people try to find any way to invalidate a good argument even if it’s one tiny error that has no bearing on the argument itself

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8h

"always blame the leftists"... yeah that's a cognitively sound way to form opinions

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 6h

On top of what #14 you are conflating leftists (some of which hold the values you stated) with Liberals who subscribe to liberal philosophy (most of which hold the values you stated). I would agree that many liberals (particularly white cis college educated ones) harp about identity politics to a degree that seemingly alienates the diversity they claim to want to make space for and creates an electorally focused mindset that does not have room for the messy nuance of changing local politics.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 6h

You also are being incredibly vague in the context of the #OP’s post when all you say Liberals (not Leftists let’s not mince words) are ‘pursing being as progressive as possible’ because you are assuming a reader understands that you are speaking only in the context of identity politics (?) and furthermore not showing why being overly progressive actually dehumanizes anyone cus the whole point of more progressive identity politics is to combat that and 2 of 3 terms above are doing the opposite.

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 6h

Srry for grammar I’m a yapper and I hate character limits

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 31m

it was a joke oml 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 29m

yeah the chestfeeders thing isnt a leftist thing it’s a performative liberal thing

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