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Anonymous 4w

No hate just genuinely curious what is the point of this sentence

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Anonymous 4w

Sounds like you’re dating fuck boys.

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Anonymous 4w

acting like women don’t do the same

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Anonymous 4w

The correlation of these two points is not making much sense girly.

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Anonymous 4w

I cry. Just not often and not in front of my girl. I can show emotion with her and all that. But I’m not breaking down completely. Not happening.

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Anonymous 4w

Sounds like op lacks understanding

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Anonymous 4w

They cheat and then they cry. I don’t get it

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Anonymous 4w

except you can cheat, women don't mind that as much as they do crying. how many women have stayed with a cheater and how many women leave someone who shows weakness. you're allowed to cry too but you're allowed to do whatever tf you want really. you're less likely to get left for cheating lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Lmao and this is getting down voted cause it’s true but they don’t like it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Exactly, lol. The truth hurts sometimes

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

To show that ur not allowed to cheat but men do it anyways so men can cry too

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

They r just saying men overall like men say that they arent allowed to cry and then also a lot cheat on their partners, making a statement like this is separate from a dating life

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

It depends on the woman, but this is true in some cases

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Nobody said anything abt women

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

to show that “not allowed” has never stopped a man from anything else

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Obviously but based on the tone it sounds like it’s a one way stereotype

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

They just simply are stating that theres a “men cant cry” statement that men take seriously meanwhile they also cant cheat but that doesnt stop them this post itself just isnt abt women, women dont have the same equivalent in this case

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Everyone downvoted you because they didn’t wanna hear what you wrote, not because it’s false. You’re right unfortunately

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

it’s about whether or not they feel comfortable doing it. some men feel comfortable cheating so they do it and some men don’t feel comfortable crying so they don’t. as if no woman has ever broken a rule lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 4w

it’s not a rule… if a man doesn’t feel comfortable crying that’s his problem but no rule says a man can’t cry lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

Ya ur right its not equivalent at all. Women cheat more.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

every man i’ve dated cried in my face multiple times. if they cheated, i know nothing of it. obv they know which one we’ll care more about

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 4w

Bro what women do it worse and way more

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

I think men or women, there’s good and bad. But cheaters in general they’ll do it and then cry and be emotionally manipulative

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 4w

Honestly. I can’t agree more a really good perspective

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

note dated in the past tense

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 4w

i know lol, thanks

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 4w

its not spoken out loud much but it’s definitely something that boys are implicitly taught. and disregarding the problem is part of the problem btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 4w

Agreed. Take a psychology or sociology class and they'll teach about how gender rolls are taught. Boys are taught to bury their emotions and people get uncomfortable when they don't—including women.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 4w

Cheating is caused by immaturity and not giving a damn, while the lack of emotional expression is due to the invisible train tracks of gender rolls

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 4w

Its just saying that men follow the rule that they cant cry but will cheat they wont follow the rule that they cant cheat

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