
That’s a discussion for the future but I genuinely do not like sex. I think it’s overhyped by society and then suddenly you’re “wrong” or “need fixing” bc you just want someone who also wants a genuine relationship—night drives, gm gn texts, stargazing, sending each other stupid memes, asking how their day went, etc. Society is too hung up on “have sex” that it’s no wonder no one can keep a relationship anymore and you have all these people who just sleep around and whore each other. No thnx
Like, it’s not about having sex or having a body count or being toxic bc society says you have to be I’m not gonna knock someone bc that’s what they’re into but I’m not going to date a woman who has slept with 20 different dudes. What does that say about loyalty and goals? It’s time for society to realize that a relationship isn’t about pleasure—it’s about being happy with someone who gets you
having a high body count doesn’t mean you’re unloyal or have no goals. a relationship isn’t all about pleasure but for most people that don’t hate sex, it is a part of a relationship. it’s not a bad thing to enjoy sex, it’s part of being a human. being asexual isn’t crazy but neither is wanting sex in a relationship.
I mean personally I don’t really like being eaten out it makes me feel weird. different people like different things and that’s ok! men being dicks about eating someone out being gay and demanding their dick sucked are assholes, but not consenting to a type of sex is a whole different thing.
You responded to my comments for 23 about how it’s okay to not want to do certain sexual acts, and how that doesn’t actually mean most women won’t date you, with your own personal preferences about not dating guys who won’t eat you out. It’s obviously fair to not want that, but replying to my comments in particular was just strange
You previously replied directly to my comment about how it’s okay to not be comfortable doing certain sexual acts, and arguing against the statement that “most” women won’t date a guy who won’t eat them out, by saying that you personally wouldn’t date a man who wouldn’t eat you out (which is okay but in context is a weird thing to respond to my messages in particular with) and then posted this? What am I supposed to think? 😭
Maybe it’s a dealbreaker for you, and that’s okay. However, for many people, missing out on one specific sexual act while still receiving pleasure in other ways (penetration, fingers, toys, intercrural, etc) is not going to make or break a relationship that’s based on more than just sex