Anonymous #2 4w

Ew. This is giving victim blaming. So men are allowed to harass women bc she wants attention? you’re fucking weird.

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Anonymous #3 4w

asf

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Anonymous #3 4w

so block it???

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Anonymous #4 4w

You’re so right, it’s not that easy! Just do what you can to get out safely and be sure you can protect others around you 🙏

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Anonymous #5 4w

period. no isn’t enough and neither is the fucking law for them

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Anonymous #5 4w

ofc, diva <3

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Anonymous #2 4w

Well, I sure don’t. Why would you try to tell another person what they like?

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Anonymous #5 4w

I’m also a physically disabled person… I work in the court as a victim & witness advocate. Statistically speaking disabled women are 4x more likely to be victims of IPV/DV.. I am a smart person and working on my doctorate in psych. It still doesn’t feel real that I’ve been put in this situation but it’s not because I “want attention” it’s humiliating.

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Anonymous #5 4w

I empathize with your experience. Keep in mind this is meme, making it personal about your specific predicament indicates you may need some professional assistance for what you have been through. I pray you get that help and experience the best life has to offer 🙏

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Anonymous #7 4w

It’s a meme not advice 👀

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Anonymous #10 4w

( . )( . )

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Anonymous #2 4w

if you don’t entertain it, they have nothing to be entertained by 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #2 4w

that’s not a way to live. they could literally kill you

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Anonymous #4 4w

i don’t entertain it they’ll get bored

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Anonymous #2 4w

It is not fact at all… from a VWA in the court system, I can tell you with absolute certainty you’re grossly uninformed. that may be your own experience. But it is a FACT that four women are killed everyday in the US by an intimate partner. It is a FACT that times of leaving/blocking/ no contact are the most dangerous times for a woman in DV.. It’s the “if I can’t have you no one can” mentality. And it is a FACT that you are blaming based on ur experience.

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Anonymous #5 4w

i’ve been stalked and harassed. The police helped me. The people around you will help you if you just speak up and stop talking to your abuser

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Anonymous #2 4w

many people reach out for help, and nothing happens. they end up dead

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Anonymous #4 4w

not majority. Majority get the help and get out of the situation.

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Anonymous OP 4w

Hm I don’t need ur prayers or want your pity but thanks lol 🥴I literally AM professional help I am a clinical social worker and psychologist lolll all my peers are “professional help” I’m like a year removed from all this and I’m fine it doesn’t change the fact that this happens to women everyday and just block them doesn’t just make things fine and dandy but nice try sweetie

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Anonymous #2 4w

Again you are wildly incorrect.. there are resources available that can inform you, even a quick google search dude! Fewer than 33% of victims seek help from LEO for reasons such as having kids, not being believed or generally not wanting to call attention to themselves… furthermore, less than 20% of victims seek help from victims services for generally the same reasons & unfortunately it’s hard to even get an indictment for the abuser. Much less a sentence. But sure, you’re right lol🫠

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Anonymous #5 4w

you just listed out reasons why they wouldn’t seek out when I just said they should seek help.. they should just seek help no matter the reason, especially if they think that their abuser is going to kill them, no matter the circumstance. they shouldn’t be putting themselves in situations or scenarios with their abuser. They should be avoiding them at all, cost. they should not allow their abuser to have access to them.

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Anonymous #11 4w

You’ve never had to deal with a stalker and that’s great but it’s actually not that easy

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Anonymous #2 4w

You can’t even get an ro until the stalker/harasser actually does something physical in most places…

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Anonymous #2 4w

this is victim blaming btw

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Anonymous #7 4w

yes, you can get a restraining order based on threats if you have proof of them threatening you online. You can get a restraining order and once they break the restraining order, they will be arrested.

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Anonymous #2 4w

And threats you can’t prove? That is what happens a lot of the time…jsyk hence why nothing can be done by police in these scenarios Most stalkers are aware of they leave a paper trail they’ll get caught, a lot of them take precautions, and then there’s those who don’t care and would violate restraining orders anyway Ask me how I know

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Anonymous #2 4w

Respectfully you’re a cunt. You’re saying majority seek help and no the fuck they don’t. Here’s the percentage and here’s logical explanations as why they wouldn’t… especially if people in their life are BLAMING THEM and saying just saying omg just BLOCK HIM and everything will be fine. Are we done here? Have the day you deserve!

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Anonymous #2 4w

Also notice the use of “may” in that google search, meaning not guaranteed

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Anonymous #7 4w

When I was getting stalked at my job, we used camera evidence from the store inside and outside, I would take a picture of him whenever he was in the store. We got a restraining order on him, even though we didn’t even have his name since he paid only with cash. He came a few days later and was arrested on the spot. You’re telling me with all these cameras around and all the access we have now to help women they can’t get help?

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Anonymous #7 4w

A little more research and a lot more website said that you can just that one I chose said may

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Anonymous #5 4w

name-calling? That’s funny literally all I’m saying is they should seek help no matter what and I’m the bad one😭

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Anonymous #2 4w

A little more research can tell you about the women who did report, and what fuck all was done about it by police You’re situation is not the only one and you need to accept that because you are spreading info based on your situation alone saying it’s fact When women of other experiences are telling you otherwise

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Anonymous #2 4w

Yea you said they should seek help You also victim blamed Downplayed other women’s experience because you think how yours went is how they all are and are spreading misinformation based off that

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Anonymous #7 4w

there’s way more resources for women other than the police. if they don’t wanna use all their resources, that’s a personal problem

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Anonymous #7 4w

how my victim blaming when I’m telling the victim to seek help and then you’re telling me victims don’t want to seek help?

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Anonymous #2 4w

Do I even bother to tell you it’s not that simple to get an order of protection orrrr…… like you are seriously as sharp as a marble

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Anonymous #2 4w

Well, if it walks like a cunt and talks like a cunt…🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #5 4w

actually, it is simple if you have the proof? One visit to the police station or one call to the police to come to your house and you got your restraining order

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Anonymous #2 4w

“They shouldn’t be putting themselves in…” That is victim blaming, no one is purposely putting themselves in those situations…did you put yourself in yours at your job when he showed up? “I avoid areas” like it’s your fault you’re being harassed, that is internal victim blaming

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Anonymous #2 4w

Again…most people don’t have proof…that is a conditional circumstance which btw isn’t even 100% guaranteed

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Anonymous #2 4w

DUDE I WORK IN THE COURT IT IS NOT THAT SIMPLE… You can’t just get a protection order without showing up to court. You’d both have to appear in court there are very few scenarios in which you could get a temporary emergency order but you’d still have to appear in court at some point to get it renewed.

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Anonymous #5 4w

yeah, you get a restraining order, you take them to court and in court you gotta an actual non-temporary restraining order that can last 2 to 4 years. if you don’t wanna be harassed, then you’re gonna have to appear in court to get it renewed.

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Anonymous #7 4w

i’ve never said 100% of women will be free from their harassers if they block them, I said majority will. I know not every case is the same but there’s so many ways to get out of the situation but a lot of women don’t get out of the situation because they dont try and entertain it. I see TikTok‘s every day of women getting no caller ID, spam calls and giggling at it cause they like it.

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Anonymous #2 4w

No. Nobody wants that attention. No means no, creep.

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Anonymous #2 4w

And then the escalate the behavior to something dangerous instead of annoying.

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