Anonymous #1 1d

So you’re a woman then

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Anonymous #1 1d

You don’t get the concept

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Anonymous #2 1d

not a woman nor am i a man i don’t conform to a gender identity

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Anonymous #1 1d

It was a fucking joke. Do you not see the punchline

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Anonymous #3 1d

babe i can see the joke why u so mad, im adding insight to what its actually like 👍🏾

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Anonymous #3 1d

besides she is a female pronouns and it isn’t a nonbinary term, it’s called neopronouns. i go by they them

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Anonymous #1 1d

That makes no sense

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Anonymous #2 1d

makes perfect sense, rather than feeling like i’m a gender, i feel like myself.

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Anonymous #2 1d

also pls remind yourself why men have nipples before commenting this shit 😭

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Anonymous #1 1d

Not sure how that correlates to you being born as a woman then choosing to be neither man nor woman

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Anonymous #2 1d

i was never a woman 💋

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Anonymous #1 1d

So you were born as neither? Got it

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Anonymous #2 1d

what it says on my birth certificate is a piece of paper the government uses to make sure i’m alive

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Anonymous #1 1d

So what does that say

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Anonymous #2 1d

idk i don’t have it 🤷🏾‍♀️

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Anonymous #1 1d

I’m a straight male but I use the non-gendered bathrooms all the time because they are usually 1 person bathrooms and you can lock them. I call them the VIP bathrooms.

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Anonymous #1 1d

Not feeling like a gender doesn’t mean you don’t have one. Many men aren’t masculine and many women aren’t feminine. They’re still men and women.

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Anonymous #5 1d

i don’t conform to being a man or a woman, being myself just feels right. if you’d ask me what gender i feel safest in i’d say neither

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Anonymous #1 1d

Again, not conforming to or “feeling” like a certain gender has nothing to do with which gender you are.

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Anonymous #5 1d

This

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Anonymous #1 1d

I’d never be apart of that community personally. No hate, it just makes me sad that you’re lost and confused. “Acting like I’m insane for knowing myself” …. Sounds like you don’t know yourself, you don’t identify with a gender… u def don’t know urself 🤣

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Anonymous #2 1d

oh no i know myself and myself is most comforted by they them pronouns while identifying as a lesbian. without those idk who i WOULD be. you are being hateful to a community, nonbinary people are people too. no matter what gender your brain wants them to conform to

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Anonymous #1 1d

Lesbian would mean you’re a woman who likes other women… my fault you think im being hateful, I’m just trying to understand but I fear I just don’t. Never said you’re not a person, just think you’re lost and mentally ill

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Anonymous #2 1d

personally, I used to be lost an confused, then realized I was non-binary. now I’m much happier with myself and feel like I’m actually living life. it’s hilarious whenever someone calls me lost and confused because I’m very secure and content lol

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Anonymous #2 1d

the white in the lesbian flag is for nonbinary lesbians genius

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Anonymous #2 1d

you’ve clearly never been a part of the lesbian community because lesbians are very gender-fucky and commonly are non-binary or date non-binary people lol

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Anonymous #6 1d

my girlfriend dates me!!

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Anonymous #1 1d

yeah exactly, happy for you two

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Anonymous #2 1d

“sorry you think I’m being hateful, I just think you’re mentally ill for loving yourself” ok dude

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Anonymous #5 1d

not conforming to a gender but being a man or woman makes you GNC! being non-binary makes you non-binary :)

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Anonymous #2 1d

you’re not born as a man or woman, children don’t understand gender until ages 2-3 and develop a more stable identity at 4-5. you clearly mean sex assigned at birth, or ASAB. sex is different from gender, and they are different topics :)

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Anonymous #6 1d

thank you

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Anonymous #6 1d

“Sex is different from gender” is a subjective, recent point of view that is largely rejected by most English speakers and is quickly falling out of fashion.

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Anonymous #5 1d

me when I’m just saying shit

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Anonymous #5 1d

I can tell you’ve done literally zero research on this because quite literally every point you made is wrong 💀 one of the most egregious being how it’s a “recent point of view.” hundreds of cultures worldwide over thousands of years have more than two genders as a well-understood concept.

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Anonymous #6 1d

Literally nothing wrong about it. It began in the 1950s by John Money, a psychologist most famous for reassigning David Reimer at age 2, ruining his life and later abusing him until he took his own life at 38.

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Anonymous #6 1d

Naturally it hasn’t caught on very well outside of the American intelligentsia. Go to India (where the most English speakers live) and almost no one would make a distinction between the two words. Even dictionaries didn’t until extremely recently.

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Anonymous #5 1d

I assumed you meant English speakers in America, since that’s where we live. this is a college app for Americans, in case you didn’t know

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Anonymous #5 1d

Money is a travesty to sociology & his experiments do not represent the reality of gender, they just brought attention to it in the US. gender has always existed, we simply haven’t noticed, termed, or defined it in most of Western culture. for example, Two-Spirit is a relatively recent word for English-speakers, but it was coined as a reference to all of the “third-gender” identities of indigenous cultures, which have existed forever.

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