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okay tmi but like ik people like sex and stuff and no shade to anyone ive been with but like i don’t find it enjoyable, ive never came from it and everytime im doing a fake orgasim so it can stop bc its taking so long and im not feeling it. Is it weird?
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Anonymous 3w

Not weird at all

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Anonymous 3w

maybe invest more into foreplay? roleplay?

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Anonymous 3w

You’re not really tbh I never really used to like sex until I realized a lot of my issues with sex were connected to self esteem and not feeling like I’m attractive to others. Sometimes the disliking sex thing is something you can work through and sometimes sex just isn’t for you it’s up to the person man

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Anonymous 3w

Sex aint worth all the BS you gotta put up with to get some. Only really worth it if you love the person and they love you back

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Anonymous 3w

having a connection is the only enjoyable part of it for me it doesn’t even feel that great

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Anonymous 3w

It hurts so bad for me and it’s never fit in all the way anyway

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Anonymous 3w

If your partner is unable to please you then it’s not your fault. You may not be sexually compatible or maybe they are just bad in bed. There’s definitely a difference being with someone who knows how to please versus someone who doesn’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

I’ve done that but I ended up having the same feelings about it 😣

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