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Anonymous 1d

opening the comments was an act of explicit self harm. my fucking bad i guess

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Anonymous 2d

The police?

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Anonymous 2d

I mean generally the kinds of guys who rape and murder aren’t the same type of guys who wish they could cry in public without being made fun of.

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Anonymous 2d

“I don’t want to seem gay because I’m afraid I’ll get bullied.” How about you actually stand up for your gay brothers, coward

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Anonymous 1d

period tho

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Anonymous 1d

Think how many less rapists we’d have if we deported all the illegals and Somalis

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Anonymous 1d

Cool Keep insulting men. Gives us less of a reason to help you guys

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

bro thinks the police help women

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

😦

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

bro thinks the justice system actually benefits rape victims

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Anonymous replying to -> glitterclitter123 2d

Justice System bad, we should just do trial by Twitter

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Prison court does a little justice in those cases tho lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

someone didn’t hear abt the recent charleston case

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Anonymous replying to -> glitterclitter123 2d

Ummm, because of course it does? What world are you living in? About 10,000 sex offenders were arrested in 2024. Would you prefer if they weren’t?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2d

Those aren’t impressive numbers 😭. There are sooo many weird creepy men out there who don’t get arrested even after being reported

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

So that’s the issue? You can’t just say someone did something and throw them in jail?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Sure but you can at least investigate. A lot of the cases don’t even get investigated

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Why not? Sometimes there’s just nothing to “investigate” if there’s nothing there that could lead to any evidence.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 2d

2/3 r*pe cases go unreported, and of the 1/3 that are reported an estimated 90% end without conviction. Also as little as 2% of r*pe accusations are false😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2d

I have read about these numbers before and looked into it and found they were calculated in a very flawed way. (I mean how are we even supposed to know what percent are false, just impossible to know in the first place) But that’s besides the point, how, specifically, is this something the police are doing wrong. Consent is difficult to prove/disprove. do you suggest convicting with no evidence?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

The police force are a corrupt system in the US and while there’s so exact stats on this as far as I know, I personally know women who have had issues with reporting r*pe to cops. As for your first point, how many men do you know with false allegations versus women who didn’t even report the r*pe they experienced? Because as someone who literally has a false allegation (ex said I did after I told his friends about him abusing me), I know 10+ women who never reported their r*pe

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2d

I sympathize with your personal experiences. But the premise of your point is either unclear or implausible. I can’t imagine a situation where there is some widespread phenomena of rapists having connections with the police to block victims

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Point: False cases are a tiny percent, and real cases are rarely reported. Also, It’s that many police are corrupt, not necessarily that they are getting bribes, but that they are either also abusers or that they do not care. For example: one study found that 40% of cops are domestic ab*sers

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Like you said, consent is hard to prove. Unfortunately a lot of police officers either don’t have the passion or are just too lazy to put in the work. Which is why, most reports don’t go anywhere

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2d

I’m not sure about the percentages, but I will say people lie about all kinds of things and this is no exception. (I only mention this because I have seen this thing were the idea that this is the one thing a woman wouldn’t dare lie about.) And corruption implies some kind of incentive. You will need to use a different word here. I think claiming that the police by large, literally support rapists is, frankly, insane. I’m not sure if that’s what you were getting at.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2d

As for, “not caring”, could you imagine the possibility that the detective did everything they could, but simply couldn’t make a case? then, an emotional victim without justice, lashes out with blame, without really understanding the details? I am only pushing back on this because of the tendency to make these big exaggerated claims without any rational thought. I makes me uncomfortable because there’s an interpretation of the solution being to circumvent standards of justice.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Omg statistically, women don’t even make claims, and usually only do when they know that have a decent case like if they were drugged or harmed very severely/violently. Stop trying to find people on technicalities and just admit to yourself that r*pe is a huge issue that almost never has consequences😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Out of all justifications this one is so lame “big exaggerated claims” omg what a loser😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2d

Also that study is from over three decades ago, and done by a feminist organization. “violence” here was broadly defined and could include verbal or emotional acts, not just physical abuse. Spouses reported lower rates: around 10% experienced physical abuse from their officer partners.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2d

Nothing you just stated I am disputing. Obviously all of that is rational and makes sense.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Me when 4/10 women are verbally abused by their husband, but only 1/10 women are literally beat by their husbands so their feminist on yikyak got mega owned

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 2d

Yes, claiming that most cops support rapists is a wild exaggeration. and that it is the fault of the justice system (because it requires proof) is also a poorly thought out exaggeration

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

I, as well as others on here, are saying that the entire system is bad and they often don’t care, and also that many of them (not most or all) are abusers, so at the very least, 4/10 see no problem with abuse on SOME level. So yeah that’s a pretty awful system. I’m not going to keep fighting a huge loser like you because only someone who can’t get any because of a bad personality believes lies about women like this

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1d

40% vs 10% is a pretty big difference and that percentage of “verbal abuse” doesn’t seem disproportionate to the general population at all. So you’re wrong. And now hurling insults. Isn’t that “verbal abuse” are you an “abuser”?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Go cry about a random stranger on the internet using the term “loser” against you after you imply because a “feminist” org does a study, it just not be a good study. Cause yeah man, that’s totally comparable to abuse

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

trial has pedophiles on there it would be the same outcome

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 1d

maybe you just didn’t mean a lot of statistics…10000 is not as much as it sounds !!

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1d

So you ARE going to "keep fighting a huge loser who can't get any" It's very important that we as a society push back on people like you that are so emotional they lash out when they're wrong. It’s because you’re dishonest. And you're just strawmanning now, good grief. I only mentioned it was by an activist organization to highlight the intent of the study's design. Which was to conflate "violence" with "verbal abuse", and get a big number.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

^^

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

Eugh you disgust me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I think this is a positive policy direction. Better incentives for detectives and cops to collect/secure evidence. It’s possible there's more they could be doing. Or it could be possible that the police are simply an outlet for frustrated victims to blame

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

Idk, man. It kind of seems like you low key are looking for reasons to not help. It can be easy to find reasons not to help if you don’t want to. Be well, man.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

there is some overlap though someone who used to go to my high school and say shit like “men are oppressed and can’t cry and shit” raped his gf and got away with it. and there are many such cases u think u know them but they live among us. no one is ‘born evil’ as that would be biologically essentialist to say; and would also absolve them of accountability; it’s the way men are socialized and engineered that leads swaths of them to believe that they can use rape as ‘discipline’/power

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

You wouldn’t have helped anyways be for real.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

When I was sexually assaulted in a lifeguard/ CPR class, not one man stepped in for me. Just stood there slack-jawed, looking at me like I’m the crazy one. Y’all are cowards, through and through.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1d

you sound super entitled. Men don’t owe you anything.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

In a world where karma exists, you’ll be attacked in the street and no one will help you. A crowd will form and no one will reach to you. You’ll be torn apart and people will laugh. Why? Because no one owes you anything.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1d

You’re still going? How about just accepting that your basis for suggesting“the police” largely support rapists was wrong, and move on. Instead of replying all my comments after you said you were done and proving to everyone how much being wrong upset you

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1d

Someone not doing something for you doesn’t make them bad. That’s just your immature entitlement talking. no one has to go put their safety at risk for you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Cry about it loser + I’ll always help my common man + you get none + I can smell you from here + you’re not quick enough bc I saw your comment before you deleted it + lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 1d

Idk constantly being misandrist isn’t the best tactic to obtaining men’s help

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1d

Congrats. nobody cares about your personal anecdote

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 1d

Keep the act up and u can ensure I won’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

I do. I care. You’re just a sad, lonely, angry man. That’s all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1d

Hahahaha. Y’all think you’re so clever. I’m very happy with my life. If you think calling out this behavior means I’m sad or lonely you just have the maturity of a toddler

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

Call me a toddler. But I care. I care about every single person who has ever been r*ped. Even those who lash out on others after. Even those who hurt others after. R*pe is an indescribable pain, so I care. Even if you don’t.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

You should see my other conversation with them. They were doing the “ACAB” thing and cited some study that I showed was being misinterpreted and then they just started hurling the standard insults. Believing most police secretly support rape is delusional and just a very hyperbolic childish thing to say

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1d

Ooh ooh, pick me!! Pick me!

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 1d

Misconstruing my point, again. Using an SA experience to justify prejudice against men is despicable. And atp the way yall act you don’t want a resolution, you just want more chaos

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yep. It never changes. They prevent meaningful conversations from happening and then wonder why we don’t side with that kind of rhetoric

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

It’s a bullying tactic, that’s how you know these are people with bad intentions and hidden motives. But why would they resort to shaming tactics unless they recognize their ideas don’t hold up to scrutiny?

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

So you wouldn’t help a girl you see getting raped because someone on the internet made a comment that you found “insulting”? says a lot about ur character 😬

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I really wonder if you guys lack comprehension skills or just intentionally misinterpret everything. Obviously I would act in that situation. I’m referring to the paradox of women wanting perpetual help from men while simultaneously villainizing their existence. It doesn’t make any sense

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

there have been enough social experiments and videos of this situation playing out and men intervene every time.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Entitled? No, I simply know there’s no point to them now

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1d

Nobody reiterates incel talking points more than women

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

??? So if you see someone get hit by a car, you not gonna help them because you don’t “owe” them anything?

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

Yeah😊There’s no point to men. They only know how to do two things: 1) hurt women. 2) stand by and dumbly watch other men hurt women. Why would I waste my time being a live-in therapist, personal chef, or sex slave to men when instead I can just be happy and unbothered? There’s no point to men and my sexual assault helped me realize that😁

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Men don’t owe us anything, but everyone owes it to each other not to ignore violence. Men are the protectors and the providers, they should act like it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1d

Yeah, obviously you have mental problems. I would feel bad for what happened to you but I really don’t. You expect the world to change for the better while you yourself promote hate and division

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

Women are the protectors and providers😁 see men don’t actually know how to do that, it’s not in their instincts otherwise they’d already be doing it

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

You frame this talking point as if men don’t already. Police? Firefighters? Military? Blue collar work? I mean cmon

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

“I would feel bad for what happened to you but I really don’t” I’m sorry but wtf is wrong with you actually

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 1d

Honestly, they don’t deserve to be called men. They’re lower than dirt. Real men are good people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

Get a grip. You gotta be blind to ignore what she just said. You would feel no sympathy if a self admitted misogynist got hurt

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

I think you’re both wrong I’m sorry I think there are many great men in the world and we shouldn’t “hate all men” But I also recognise that sexual assault isn’t something to be dismissed and it’s sad that women need to carry pepper spray and hold their keys in between their knuckles. Not all men, but always a man.

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

Stfu. Genuinely. You’re saying that dumbass tiktok catch line to a man who’s been victimized by women.

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

I don’t need you to feel bad for me😁 my point is I don’t need you, period.

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1d

Nobody wants you either so u don’t gotta worry

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

Women don’t just hate men for no reason. Men have inconvenienced women for decades.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Women use things they didn’t experience to justify hate for men that didn’t do those things

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

So wait okay you yourself have been sexually assaulted so I’m confused why you’re acting dismissive of assault I’m genuinely confused and want to have a debate I’m not trying to argue

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

As I’ve already said, keep spewing this dumbass rhetoric and you’ll never have a solution. It’s deserved atp

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

Because never once have I used those experiences to justify hatred for women. Never once did I take what that specific woman did and apply it to women I didn’t even know.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

Why tf are you saying assault is deserved i’m- 😃

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

My girlfriend wants me plenty 😜

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I didn’t say that. I just said it is a fact that I don’t owe them anything. If you are outraged that someone who doesn’t owe you anything didn’t do something for you, then you’re entitled.

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

Why do you think every comment is in response to you. Use your eyes. “Men have been *inconveniencing* women”. The word assault was never used

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1d

Obviously the guy doesn’t. Dude hit once and dipped😭✌️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Hey so calling out inaction in the face of assault actually isn’t entitlement

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

More like I hit him lol. Slapped him away and screamed in his face.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

He looked so dumb and pathetic

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1d

Piece of shit. I’m sure he signs up for Lifeguard courses because he likes feeling up minors under the water

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1d

Probably does it on a regular basis. He was like in his 60s

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

In this case, it’s being outraged that someone who doesn’t owe you anything didn’t do something for you. That meets the definition of entitlement. It’s good to appreciate those that do things for you, but demonizing those that don’t is just entitlement

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 1d

Inconvenience implies assault, murder, rape, etc. and you’re saying “it’s deserved” is wild

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 1d

Pedophile I guess 🤷🏼‍♀️ and he’ll continue to get away with it because the whole class just watched, and when I asked the instructor for his name to report to the police, the instructor protected him

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

This might be the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard. Being INCONVENIENCED doesn’t fucking imply a crime 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Basic human decency ≠ entitlement. Preventing harm isn’t a favor

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 1d

risking your safety for someone else’s benefit goes way beyond basic. Either you can explain how this situation doesn’t meet the definition of entitlement or just keep using snarky quips that don’t address the point. And I’m curious, what exactly do you believe women owe men if you believe men owe complete strangers protection

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

You’re conflating whether someone is obligated to intervene and whether it’s reasonable to morally judge inaction in the face of harm. Acknowledging that intervention can involve risk does not make the expectation ‘entitlement.’ Many moral norms involve risk, calling 911, creating a distraction, speaking up, or seeking help, none of which require physical confrontation. People are not being condemned for failing to be heroes; they’re being criticized for total indifference.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

What do you think women owe you?

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 1d

First of all, insane thing to say. Second, if you look up the statistics, white men make up a large amount rapists

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 1d

Two things I can't stand: People who are intolerant of other peoples cultures AND THE DUTCH

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

tho there is no such thing as a ‘real man’ or a ‘fake one’. i get what ur trying to say but there’s no monolithic man. every man who is a rapist, a misogynist is still a man; at large, us men can’t deflect from a pervasive problem embedded in our gender socialization by saying they don’t represent men, which just prevents us from address the problem and absolves them of accountability.

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