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Anonymous 4w

I feel like this was written very politely and in a reminding manner… why are we acting like the person who wrote this is in the wrong?? Like OP obviously didn’t do anything villainous either but I assume they said something like “and for the lady?” which would obviously make that person feel uncomfortable if that’s not how they identified lmfao.

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Anonymous 4w

Hey, they said their piece in a respectful manner without making a scene. The receiver can choose what to do with it. I don’t have a problem with this

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Anonymous 4w

100% not that’s serious 😂

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Anonymous 4w

Dang. No offense, but how are we supposed to know everyone’s gender off the bat, one. Two, didn’t seem like the partner even corrected. Three, what if they don’t believe multiple genders? Can’t force people to change their beliefs. Four, can’t expect everyone to remember everyone’s pronouns, no offense, just being blunt

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Anonymous 4w

Nothing wrong with this. It was kind and educational.

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Anonymous 4w

this is completely normal

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Anonymous 4w

This seems respectful to me? What’s the issue?

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Anonymous 4w

Crazy.

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Anonymous 4w

so… i’m assuming they didn’t tip!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Exactly what you said! how are we supposed to know everyone’s gender off the bat. that’s why it’s easier to just not gender someone in conversation, it literally takes less effort. nobody is asking them to change any beliefs!

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

i assume it comes from this person saying things like “here you go ladies” when delivering things. the note is really neutral tbh, they clearly didn’t want to make a scene and so gave their message in the simplest way. no one’s saying that he should have known their gender, but it’s quite easy (and more polite tbh) to use neutral language (ie. here y’all go, here you go folks, etc.)

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

“what if they don’t believe multiple genders” and y’all upvoted this >25 times 💀 imagine that, more than one gender… the literacy crisis strikes again

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

you believe there’s only 1 gender?

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 4w

Probably. Man and servant. 🤢

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 4w

No, two.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w
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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

Cause they are in the wrong. “Identified” lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

You just said “what if they don’t believe multiple genders?”. Meaning they only believe in one gender

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