Icks on Sidechat | Ppl really gonna get married have kids, that’s all cool, and then CUT OFF ALL THEIR FRIENDS from their entire lives. Shit is DEPRESSING bro..

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Icks 1w

Ppl really gonna get married have kids, that’s all cool, and then CUT OFF ALL THEIR FRIENDS from their entire lives. Shit is DEPRESSING bro..

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Anonymous 1w

I get having life goals. But when you think those goals require you to leave everyone in your life behind, it’s selfish and vile.

Anonymous 1w

Worst part is realizing you were never actually their friend, just a stepping stone for their selfish goals.

Anonymous 1w

It’s call prioritizing. Some “friends” just don’t get that once one is married and has a family, one’s spouse and kids because the utmost priority. If you don’t like it, get single friends

Anonymous 1w

Wtf yall are so weird, you can have kids and friends

Anonymous 1w

My fiancé and I wanted to keep our friends. We only cut them out when they started confessing to my fiancé and I and proceeded to try and break us up in an attempt to get with one of us

Anonymous 1w

Anyway, there’s a period everyone will be for themselves and rekindle that friendship again once kids start growing up…it’s life

Anonymous 1w

That’s not selfish friends take energy and time it’s simply focusing on yourself, no one is cutting off all their friendships your just dropped. 😂 stepping stones to your own goals but you let yourself b the stepping stone that’s on you. It hurts but growing as a person and being who you want to be ain’t vile it’s just being the better person.

Anonymous

#1 1w

All this time we spent, all this shit we went thru together since we were kids, was all for NOTHING. It makes me sick how ppl behave bro

Anonymous

#3 1w

If you cut me off just bc you knocked someone up you weren’t my friend to begin with 🤷‍♂️ I would NEVER do that

Anonymous

#3 1w

Nah you’re just a shitty ass friend. Not my fault you don’t know how to wrap it up

Anonymous

#3 1w

That’s the thing, they view it as betrayal. TBH some women don’t like their men to keep having friends or in some other instances you don’t have the bandwidth to keep up a friendship because life get in the way

Anonymous

#4 1w

You do know it will likely not be an accident right. That mentality is exactly why you are getting cut off…

Anonymous

OP 1w

No one said you would be cut off, but you damn right ain’t getting “me” every Friday night while my wife is home with the kids

Anonymous

#3 1w

I think it’s just called being a shitty person. It’s actually not difficult to balance a romantic relationship and friends. It just shows what someone truly cares abt.

Anonymous

#2 1w

I guarantee you, with utmost certainty, that no GOOD man will be “going out with the boys” while his wife and newborn are home alone

Anonymous

#3 1w

hoping I never have the displeasure of having a friend like you, if you truly care about your friends you will make time to see them

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Anonymous

#3 1w

Unpopular opinion but your kids are not your lives and you should be maintaining relationships with your extended family & friends. People in this generation cant prioritize anything. I personally think it’s sad when parents don’t have any friends or any contacts, humans are social beings. It takes a village. Your kids will be their own adults one day and who will you be? No one.

Anonymous

#8 1w

And who said you must remain in the same circle you grew up in? I can’t count how many of my friends I’ve outgrown;

Anonymous

#5 1w

Now this I can get behind.

Anonymous

#10 1w

Nobody saying u can’t; the amount of friends and time spent with them does decrease

Anonymous

#5 1w

I don’t think anyone’s arguing with that basic truth. I thought the point is about the people who completely discard their old lives and relationships solely bc they got married.

Anonymous

#9 1w

POV you are listening to a narcissist