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When I say “pregnant person” and people correct me and say “You mean pregnant woman?🤓” I know they’re just being transphobic but it also gives the impression that you don’t see women as people???
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Anonymous 9w

True 🤔 I'd hear the transphobic way first but antagonizing them with "so women aren't people?" sounds amazing

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Anonymous 9w

I mean, transphobia is inherently misogynistic. There’s never a transphobe who genuinely cares for or about women.

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Anonymous 8w

Transphobia aside (I am myself trans and we should not push it aside but let me make my point), kids can also get pregnant. They are certainly not old enough to be women, but they are people.

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Anonymous 9w

isn’t it crazy that when it comes to topics like these, the most uneducated and hateful amongst us somehow feel like they have a say in the matter? go sit the fuck down and open a book before you hurt yourself, strange ass transphobes.

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Anonymous 9w

transphobia is largely based in misogyny, so transphobes ascribe to a lot of misogynistic rhetoric. to answer #10’s question since I have #5 blocked

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Anonymous 9w

women aren’t allowed to have anything jfc

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Anonymous 9w

Why be so vague? Woman references a uniquely beautiful scope of personhood and you think they’re taking away a persons personhood?

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Anonymous 9w

This has to be a troll 😂

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Anonymous 8w

As long as these terms are not being pushed on women then truly there's nothing wrong with wanting to be referred to in a certain way just dont push these terms on women who dont want to be called a chest feeder or birthing person but i highly doubt many people correct you when you use the term pregnant person as its a commonly used term to refer to even women that are pregnant

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Anonymous 8w

I mean men can’t get pregnant so…

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Anonymous 9w

Troll post. Only women can get pregnant. End of story. Not fearful of anything just speaking truth.

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Anonymous 9w

Holy reach

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

cope harder buddy

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Lie to yourself harder pal

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

i’m not doing anything lol i just feel bad for how dumb you are

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I don’t understand why this is getting so many down votes. This is literally just a scientific fact, without an egg you cannot give birth…

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

me when i can’t differentiate between sex and gender. i also feel bad for you

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Okay so I now identify as a unicorn and I now shit out rainbows!!! Now you can only call me Mr.sugarplum sparkles.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

This just in! Men can get pregnant despite not having the biological components to do so! Science who?????

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

trans men and some intersex men have uteruses and need medical care related to them, and by adopting more inclusive language and practices, health care professionals can better serve these populations who are often overlooked or outright discriminated against within the healthcare industry

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

and some men have uteruses. transphobes are genuinely so stupid, your blind hatred for trans women makes you forget that we’re not the only trans people in the world. and your hatred for those different than you keeps you from acknowledging the fact that other people still need medical care and deserve respect even if you disagree with their choices

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Anonymous 9w

you’re the one lumping intersex people in with women?????? you also clearly don’t know anything about treating mental health disorders. let’s not feign concern for people as an excuse to infantilize them and insult them. not to mention regardless of if you believe trans men’s experiences of themselves, they still need healthcare and your insistence on insulting and infantilizing them is exactly the kind of barrier that keeps them from getting it

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

do you think women are mystical creatures that only exist in fairy tales to cope with the fact you can never get a date?

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Anonymous 9w

every major medical organization worldwide recognizes transition as a valid treatment for dysphoria. you’re a conspiracy theorist 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

^ TERF who only “cares” about women when it hurts trans people

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

Am I a transphobe if I don’t agree with transgenderism but still love and respect them as a person

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

Yes! Because you think that your opinion is wanted or asked for by trans ppl, and also because you used an outdated pejorative term to refer to them

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9w

When did I ever say I need them to care about what I think? And what term did I even use???

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

Well if you’re saying what you think, it’s necessarily implied you believe someone out there cares what it is that you think

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9w

I mean how else do people talk about anything if not sharing opinions. Also I researched the problem with the term I used and I apologize for that, I genuinely didn’t know

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

Yes. “Transgenderism” isn’t a thing. Work on and educate yourself.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

But like, why does it matter what you think abt transgender ppl? You’re not trans, it just reads as a bigot who’s obsessed abt trans ppl and needs everyone to know they don’t like them

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9w

I’m simply asking if I fall into a certain category or not. Not sure why you’re getting so defensive over that

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

If you could read you could see I already did.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

I’m not getting defensive. I said u fit into the category, u said asked me to explain, and I explained that you sharing your unsolicited opinion abt transgender ppl makes you seem transphobic

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

It’s not my problem you don’t like the answer to the question you asked

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

Like, if I said “yk, I love and support them, but I just don’t agree with ppl being black” you would probably think I’m racist

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9w

Except acting on being trans is a choice. Being a certain race is not. Otherwise I could just become a black guy if I wanted to. And your explanation is what doesn’t make sense—a lot of the point of this app is to give unsolicited opinions on anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

You are purposely missing the point. My explanation is that if you give unsolicited opinions abt trans ppl, ppl will think you are transphobic. You have said opinions, and ppl think ur transphobic. What’s not making sense?

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9w

Okay, fair enough, I’ll be a transphobe then. How the fuck does that mean I don’t care for women?

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

Yk, you can’t be obstinately dumb and expect everyone to spell everything out for you. You have a brain, use it to figure out what OP might mean by what they said

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9w

So I’m labeled as a transphobe and #5 says that makes me misogynistic which I know for myself I am not. I just don’t get it

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

You wouldn’t still be going back and forth if you did.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

Transphobia is heavily rooted in misogyny.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

Sure but you can’t generalize all transphobic people to be misogynists

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

I’m talking about the word transgenderism. Me going back and forth IS educating myself 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

But they are.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

And clearly you’re not learning much.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

But im not

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

Sure I have!

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

If you’re transphobic, you’re misogynistic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

Ok u know best bud 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9w

im literally a woman of course i care about women ALL the time

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

^ says the TERF who pretends to care about women to hate on trans people. talk about why you respond to a post about acknowledging all pregnant people with “women can’t have anything” lol.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

Transphobia is rooted in misogyny. You still have a LONG way to go.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 9w

because they’re talking about pregnant people and not pregnant women? using a more general term to talk about a larger group is normal dawg

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9w

And therefor preferring to be specific and say women assumes that the personhood is taken away from the woman?

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 9w

“preferring to be specific” no, the OP used an accurate term and others are being inaccurate by being overly specific. that doesn’t make sense unless they either don’t consider women to be people or (more likely) they just want to be transphobic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9w

Cope

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 9w

project much? you realized your argument had too many holes, so now you refuse to be an adult and just admit you’re wrong lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9w

I have no holes 😆

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9w

So saying only women get pregnant is now overly specific 😂 welcome to 2026 people

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

because trans men and non-binary people can get pregnant, is this genuinely so hard to understand? OP’s not even policing y’all saying “pregnant women,” they’re saying it’s weird for y’all to intentionally erase pregnant trans people by correcting SOMEONE ELSE’S language. because y’all are snowflake transphobes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 9w

Thank god I wasn’t born this stupid and dense

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9w

Thanks for your input

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

cope harder? can you enlighten me how a man can get fucking pregnant?

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 9w

If someone nuts in them and they have the proper equipment, did your parents not sign the sex ed permission slip?

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9w

a male biologically can’t get pregnant, and you’re over here throwing insults. How IRONIC LMAO

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 9w

I just told you how they can don’t tell me ur illiterate too

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 9w

male ≠ man, it’s not that hard to comprehend.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

I don’t hate trans people, I just simply find it odd that a male wants to become a female, vice versa. And I never said they didn’t need medical care or deserve human decency of respect. We are all allowed to our beliefs. Just because we are transphobic doesn’t mean they don’t deserve respect.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

if you find it odd, then maybe you’re also curious how it works :p I recommend looking into explanations from trans people on why they transition

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9w

because we’re not even allowed to say pregnant women anymore. it’s taking away a community for women based around one of the most powerful things only a woman can do. women can’t have anything without it being an issue for some reason.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

notice how the OP’s the one who isn’t to say “pregnant people,” you’re acting like you’re being policed when that’s the complete opposite of OP’s situation…

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

genuinely you’re not losing anything from people acknowledging pregnant trans men/non-binary people, that community doesn’t suddenly disappear just because some people who aren’t women should be acknowledged lol. women as a community aren’t that flimsy

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

womanhood is not defined by motherhood.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

Why'd u just write a bar

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

I never fucking said that obviously.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9w

Spoiler alert… 4 isn’t the main character here. The trans community isn’t the main character here. The idiots like you who are perpetuating lies around redefining terminologies to sheep social agendas meant to divide our country are the main character we’re trying to address. You’re the enablers we wish to stop.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

bros out here talking about “dividing the country” while trying to figure out who to exclude from getting access to healthcare while abortion rights are under attack nationwide. trans people are part of the nation too and spending all your time whining about what other people do with their bodies is definitionally being distracted from the bigger picture

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

They’re a minority of a minority of a minority and people are acting like they’re the most important thing to divide the country over. What happened to not caring and not flaunting the .01% to force weird agendas? Let people get healthcare according to their biology and be done with it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

there are about 3 million americans who self identify as transgender according to census data. that is a significant amount of people. and all of those people are currently being used as a political wedge by people like YOU who think it’s your job to police other people’s lives and bodies, and serving as a scapegoat for the larger systemic problems plaguing americans.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

if you want people to get healthcare “according to their biology” that definitionally means trans men and nonbinary people with uterus’s should have access to reproductive healthcare and should be treated with respect. getting mad about people using inclusive language with their trans patients is counter to the idea that those people deserve healthcare. someone’s choices, or mental state does not change they fact they need care from professionals to take care of their body

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

I can’t stop people from trying to dis include themselves by demanding they’re men when they have ovaries. Don’t you see the problem is entirely in their hands to solve?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

that’s right it’s not your business so why are you in it? someone saying “pregnant person” is a completely innocuous statement that makes people more comfortable getting healthcare. the part that’s “dividing the nation” and making it “your problem” is when you decide to spend hours of your life whining and crying on the internet about it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

Ok I’ll admit it’s 0.5% of the world according to google that identify as trans. Still minuscule to divide the world over

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

What problem? I don’t see any problem w trans ppl

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

The only ppl dividing the world are the weird ass motherfuckers who spend all day thinking abt the genitalia of .5% of the population

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

so why are you trying to divide people? why can’t you just let people live instead of getting mad and spreading hate instead of focusing on real problems?

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

I’m trying to stop you from dividing people by bringing it up every chance you get

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

trans people aren’t dividing anything 💀 they simply exist, and we have a lot of language that explicitly excludes them. pointing that out isn’t “dividing people,” YOU’RE dividing people by refusing to acknowledge a large population. also, we live in the US. it’s 1% of the population, or 3.3 million people. people like YOU who refuse to accept reality are the ones dividing the country. don’t pin it on trans people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

you’re the only one bringing it up my guy. how people talk to their doctors and what they talk about isn’t your business and none of us cared til you threw a hissy fit

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

Did you read the original post my guy?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

the post about how others are policing OP’s language? 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> #19 8w

Many can and do.

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Anonymous 8w

because some men have uteruses like trans men and intersex men

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Anonymous 8w

They absolutely are men and many Intersex people are fertile.

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Anonymous 8w

I can assure you they’re more of a man than you could ever hope to be.

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Anonymous 8w

Seems they did as you continue to play pretend to avoid reality. 😂

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Anonymous 8w

You don’t, though. No field of science supports your transphobia.

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Anonymous 8w

You are, though, and you need to quit running your trap about things you don’t understand. The illness is dysphoria, the treatment is transitioning. Not you continuing to spread disinformation and knowingly avoiding educating yourself just because you want to pretend they don’t exist because you never finished grade school science classes.

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Anonymous 8w

this is blatantly untrue

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Anonymous 8w

every major medical association worldwide supports transition as necessary, lifesaving healthcare. even studies trying to disprove its validity just end up showing how it improves lives. other forms of treatment have proven either ineffective or actively damaging to trans people. these are facts & you are either wholly uneducated or a delusional conspiracy theorist lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 8w

This is blatantly untrue

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Google is free 💀 https://glaad.org/medical-association-statements-supporting-trans-youth-healthcare-and-against-discriminatory/

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 8w

Yeah glaad is a great unbiased source. Thanks for exposing your academic integrity

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

you act like you need to be unbiased to make a list 💀 you’re questioning the integrity of dozens of associations and have failed to provide a single source of your own. talk about bias after you find a single credible organization who agrees with your uneducated viewpoint.

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 8w

OMG YES 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #20 8w

yeah.. let’s not normalize kids becoming pregnant.

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 8w

You’ve got the burden of proof here, not me. You can’t prove what you’re saying is true without being a self licking ice cream cone. Of course mentally ill people won’t choose to classify their illness as an illness because they want to be seen and accepted as normal. Some of us would rather get them professional help and medical care and love the human who is broken and hurting in a way that actually heals them vs you enabling mutilation of otherwise healthy parts and ignoring what’s broken.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

Girl science says you’re wrong, pipe down

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

Agreed! They should never be pregnant, but they do get pregnant. And calling them women doesn’t help. Using accurate language does not normalize it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 8w

Cis het ppl have normalized it wayyyyyyyy more, like literally a tv show called teen moms

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 8w

You’re welcome to say you breastfeed and are a birthing mother. Nobody ever said otherwise.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

“you’ve got the burden of proof here” I gave you a source listing dozens of medical associations, and you act like they’re all infested with trans people who’re writing those statements. since you can’t handle the burden of reading, the APA’s statement is below. they represent 190,000 professionals. and here’s another link from them about the harm of conversion therapy. https://www.apa.org/about/policy/resolution-gender-identity.pdf http://www.apa.org/about/policy/orientation-diversity.aspx

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

If you have to go out of your way to say you’re not fearful of anything you 1000% are

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 8w

“some of us would rather them get professional help and medical care” thank you for supporting transition 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 8w

Hey, hope your day is going well. I’m a trans woman… there is no world in which I’d be born and not be one. You wake up everyday and exist as a man without thinking about it, I do that as a woman. The reason that people likely think this is a choice or new is that medical intervention has only existed for the past 100 years or so, and I don’t speak for all trans people, but personally if I lived in a world without gender affirming care, that wouldn’t be a world I would live in any longer (1)

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 8w

Race and gender are much different, but yes both are social constructs. However the body isn’t really dimorphic in race as it is in sex; for trans people there is a complex interplay of hormones that made them the way they are, but race is simply melanocyte production. But people do “change races” if you look at in a certain lens. Take Eminem, most of his friends are African American (AA) and he does culturally AA hobbies and advocacy. Did he change his skin? No… because that’s not the point (2)

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 8w

There would never be a world I don’t think where Eminem isn’t very culturally African American, the same way there wouldn’t be a world where I’m not trans. The difference is that transness comes with gender dysphoria, meaning that I have brain abnormality that sees my body differently than was assigned to it. The symptoms and current understanding of neurochemistry is that it is similar to body integrity identity disorder, this a group of people who sees their body as much different than the (3)

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 8w

The current body plan and these people have strong desire to cut off their limbs. Obviously medicine can’t really condone that… this disease is tragic, many people either mutilate themselves or commit suicide as no matter what psychological interventions, the feelings don’t subside. Being trans is different though, it’s not an inherent issue with body plan as much as being also a disorder of sexual development. Current hypothesis is that neonatal hormone exposure pushes the brain towards this(4)

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 8w

Pathology. But the difference between BIID and gender dysphoria is that we can both treat the underlaying cause (having the wrong sex) and correct the body form without too many lasting complications in procedures that are widely supported across medical bodies. Literally every single major medical association supports gender affirming care (5)

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