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people that suddenly become SUPER religious because they start dating a religious girl
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Anonymous 7w

actually this is not an ick to me and in fact I’d like to see more of this

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Anonymous 7w

I feel like that’d be a good thing? Just because they were converted by an ex to whatever religion doesn’t make the conversion illegitimate

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Anonymous 7w

happened w my cousin he was the embodiment of the antichrist until he got a minor pregnant married her and is now a “man of god”

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

i can see that being a good thing! what im talking abt is when all they post about is prayers and bible verses and it's all they want to talk about. like the performative kind.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Oh ok that makes alot more sense! Yeah I totally get that then 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

It’s not a good thing btw, religion is for Neanderthals who need a way to cope with their mortality. It’s especially a red flag for a man to have these beliefs and talk about about it 24/7 as those beliefs are rooted in misogyny, “it’s man who carved their terror into stone and called it God”

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

yeah yall love the indoctrinated

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Religion is not used to cope with mortality. I have always felt I would rather believe in nothing so I can rest forever, but that is not what I know to be. I gain nothing worldly by following religion.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

It’s not just for coping with mortality, it’s also helped me to find meaning through my suffering and given me a guidebook for moving about life. Also, you can be Christian and still critical of misogyny within your church and community.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

i think this is like a "get outside and put down the phone" kind of comment because yeah a lot of religion is male-focused but there are so many denominations/interpretations of abrahamic religions especially that you don't have to adhere to a misogynistic one

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 7w

Religion didn’t make your problems go away, you did that all yourself and give your power to an imaginary friend because you couldn’t find power in yourself, that’s not God, that’s being weak.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

All abrahamic religion is sexist, go argue with a wall, even denominations that don’t interpret them as badly are still misogynistic it’s rooted from the core of these religions.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

Typical Christian Male

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Gender difference is not inherently sexist. Roles based on sex is just an intrinsic fact of biology, it’s why we have genders at all

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Which is something that sucks but its completely of the time and just because it was made under those ideals does not mean it cant grow and change over time. people don't follow scripture to a T when it comes to modern applications for a reason.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

idk abt this one from a personal standpoint because i think both women and men can fulfill provider/nurturer roles and it's best if both are active in those areas

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 7w

yeah as per usual im so sorry😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

like the episcopalian denomination is so loose with who can be made a preacher that anyone can regardless of sex, sexuality, etc. the catholic church saddens me a little because women of the cloth can't have any upward movement beyond mother superior//sainthood afaik but its so traditionalistic that i can't see it changing

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

ong his kid isn’t even 1 yet and she’s pregnant again 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

No of course, I agree completely that it’s not required, but having those roles emphasized in religion alone is not sexist

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

well, it is a little bit. you have to admit that

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 7w

I mean maybe, but I actively do not fit into those typical roles and it’s no issue, it was mostly for people living in different times, old testament especially.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7w

which still effects ppl to this day, and people continue to uphold those values and use it against people—and particularly those problems caused by such writings now effect people subconsciously so sexism is harder to fight, makes people more susceptible to religious indoctrination, causing further problems in the progressive movement in religion leading to vast denomination differences causing more separation and division and influencing our politics to more regressive nature.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6w

changing someone’s mind is now indoctrination? go look up that definition again.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6w

My problems never went away, but the prayers and community and that feeling of Jesus being with me through my problems has helped. I’m not disempowering myself by leaning into my faith to have the motivation to keep going.

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