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calling women “females”
when females actively flirt with your man when they know he’s taken
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Anonymous 3w

Calling women female and in the same sentence using the word man

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Anonymous 3w

it’s like people forget that the word women exists

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Anonymous 3w

Literally cause peep how they never use “male”

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Anonymous 3w

Since we’re still having trouble ill bring the visual aid in. The issue is when we use female to refer to women in the same sentence we’re also referring to men, as just men (or vice versa). Its weird, no normal person talks like that. This is because the difference is that two of these terms refer to biological sex generally (female and male) and the other specifies we’re talking about humans (woman and man).

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Anonymous 3w

as a dude i naturally default to calling men "males" and women "women"

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Anonymous 3w

nah if they doing the behavior in that og post they are females. do better and stop being a trashy bitch and find your own bf, then maybe you'll re-earn being called a woman

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Anonymous 3w

Bro we are females 🤣

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 3w

literally 😭 like??

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

i love your name btw

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 3w

Thanks bestie u da realest 💝

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Anonymous replying to -> beestboy 3w

It’s effective to dehumanize the gender into a unitary group.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Exactly! For the people that might not know already (which is totally okay!): Basically, when people refer to a lady as "a female," it can be dehumanizing because it's a broad, scientific term that can apply to animals as well. A lot of ladies prefer being addressed as a "woman" or "lady" bc it recognizes personhood beyond biological category. A lot of guys do this intentionally and exclusively to ladies on purpose to be sexist, sadly. Esp when you don’t hear them call other guys ‘males’. :(

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 3w

commenter #12 thank you for explaining this so well and so kindly

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Aw of course! ❤️ tried my best. They might have had a hard time with coming into a conversation where folks engage with their ideas. I feel a little badly for them that they seem to misunderstand that getting structural critique of an argument = getting called “a dumbass” point blank. But yk, what can you do?

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

When incels talk about men they’ll call them such but refer to women as “foids” because they have issues lol, eventually it got watered down to just using “females” derogatorily with andrew tate and other podcasters of that genre, its pretty obvious what those implications are to me but if you skipped over that I can see where your confusion might’ve came from

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Anonymous 3w

I’m so sorry that I made you feel that way! …I am a little confused though, if you read-read your own comment again here, this doesn’t appear as passive aggressive on your end? I can be a little dumb and misread things sometimes. 🤙

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 3w

Wow, 3 sure deletes comments a lot. Solid strategy, dropping an insult then running away, ig. I’m sorry you all were stuck having to scroll past all that. 😭🤙

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Anonymous 3w

You know, if you’re having a bad time or struggle to not feel upset, you can leave if it’s the healthy choice for you? That seems a little easier and more actionable than trying to control what other people do, yk? I’m sorry that you’re feeling upset, I hope you’re okay.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

We don’t claim you

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

That’s messed up, what’s a foid supposed to be? I’m ootl

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 3w

It stands for “Female humanoid”

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

Gross, but thanks for explaining

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Anonymous replying to -> #18 3w

Why don’t we treat men like that though. Why aren’t they called males when they behave badly

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 3w

We are but it’s gross to refer to us as female. Especially when no one calls men males

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