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Icks 2w
no girl truly wants a nonchalant man i promise u that
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Anonymous 2w

oh thank god

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Anonymous 2w

What kinda man do they want?

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Anonymous 2w

i can’t relate i want a nonchalant man i’ve only dealt w men that make me feel suffocated all the time like LEAVE ME ALONW

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Anonymous 2w

I want one

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Anonymous 2w

My controversial and probably kindof inaccurate opinion is that low key it’s cover for having like zero personality

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Anonymous 2w

genuinely why do people even act nonchalant. it’s such a turnoff… why would you want to act like you don’t care about anything

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Anonymous 2w

I can’t help it though there’s not much substance to me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

You can’t really just ask this general of a question because it’s different for everyone

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

someone authentic to themselves

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

U dont want a nonchalant one tho u just dont want someone to make u feel suffocated and they can do that without being nonchalant cuz u would def also hate a nonchalant man

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

idk maybe you’re right i’ve only caught ACTUAL feelings for 1 person ever and we didn’t even date but ive had 3 exes so ik what i want i guess idk

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I just meant it as a lot of people think of nonchalant as just not clingy but in reality its so much worse than that, like I only had guys who made me feel suffocated so I thought I wanted a nonchalant guy, but then when I started talking to, when I realized how bad they are and how I just need a happy medium

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

That’s not what being nonchalant is tho

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

If you can fake that, you can get anywhere

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Someone who actually acts like they like her…the nonchalant shit is so stupid and nobody likes it except for men…when you act nonchalant the only ppl you’re impressing are men…women hate that shit why would we want someone who acts like they don’t like us

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

How did they make you feel suffocated?

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