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The label cum dumpster should be deleted from existence
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Anonymous 9w

As a man, that was cheated on… i disagree. That term fits my ex quite perfectly

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Anonymous 9w

as a man i agree, so fucking disgusting

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Anonymous 9w

The amount of men in here disagreeing is disheartening

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Anonymous 9w

Bonnie blue exists. It’s not going away.

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Anonymous 9w

My girl loves that term tho

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Anonymous 9w

Yeah it’s really disgusting and dehumanizing but there will always be men who believe it’s fine because they are incels who thinks a woman is only good for sex and children. Or they were done wrong by a woman so it makes it ok to call someone that. It’s really embarrassing how some men resort to calling women nasty names instead of growing the fuck up and letting it go.

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Anonymous 9w

Maybe we should just create a society more focused on consent for the things they do and don’t like, some people like those kind of things and some don’t. If we kept more things in the bedroom instead of in public this also wouldn’t be a problem

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Anonymous 9w

Some of y’all just live to argue on the internet

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Anonymous 9w

then there wouldn’t be anything to call your mom

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Anonymous 9w

As a gay man I think it’s hot

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Anonymous 9w

What are we replacing it with? Cum barrel? Cum pool? Cum valley?

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Anonymous 9w

Bigger issues in the world btw 😭

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Anonymous 8w

i only like the term when i’m deeeep in subspace

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Anonymous 9w

Sig chi Cum disagrees

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Anonymous 9w

but i have a fetish for being called it ☹️

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Anonymous 7w

I don’t mind it. It shows the state of the world

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Anonymous 8w

But my girl loves that kind of degradation tho… what do I do stop indulging her kinks? 💔

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Anonymous 9w

i dont think it’s that serious

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Anonymous 8w

Genuinely the grossest sex term there is.

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Anonymous 7w

Well it’s pretty self explanatory

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Anonymous 7w

if it’s true, it’s true

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Anonymous 8w

Nah, some girls def deserve the title

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Anonymous 7w

Nah this title is definitely earned by some

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Anonymous 7w

bad take

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Anonymous 9w

Imagine being ashamed of being a cum dumpster 💀

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Anonymous 9w

You must be one

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Anonymous 9w

I only use it to describe twinks

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

social conditioning maybe

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Stop objectifying women!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

the downvotes are scaring me

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Anonymous 9w

It’s not about being mean it’s about calling women something dehumanizing. I don’t agree that women should call men wallets though. But at the same time being called a wallet has no sexual context. But if you’d like to compare, I’d love to hear what type of mean things you’ve been called for you to disagree so publicly.

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 9w

Cum drain?

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Anonymous 9w

i don't care. slutshaming is an evil thing and no woman should be called a « dumpster » for being promiscuous (unless she's into that :P)

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9w

like i agree but doesn’t the normalization of dehumanization kinks, to an extent, perpetuate the idea that women are only objects and that it’s “in their biology”? i don’t think it’s something we should shame ofc bc it’s not their fault they feel kinky abt it but i don’t think it’s something we should necessarily encourage either yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9w

It’s the fact that they feel the need to objectify themselves by being a whore, if I see a tree imma call it a tree, there’s no need to lower your own self worth for a “good time” sometimes twice a day

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

you have such a limited perspective how do you live life like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I don’t give up my body for sex, that’s how I live life like that, I have sex as much as a regular person and I don’t go out seeking it like a drug addict

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Anonymous 9w

stand up

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Anonymous replying to -> #12 9w

we're eliminating the concept not just the word

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 9w

no it doesn't. she's not a cum dumpster, she's a cheater. we can't be using this term to degrade ANY woman no matter how bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

so since you don’t live that way how bout you mind your damn business bc it doesn’t affect you bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9w

doesn’t mean it’s not still a harmful name that perpetuates negative social norms.

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9w

you can have a fetish for being slapped and that’s fine but people shouldn’t go around slapping each other randomly

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 9w

and how many men waited in line to fuck her?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Girl if you are one just say it, if you’re gonna be something be it proudly

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

i had actually never heard it being used as a slur before this post shskssjjsk my entire understanding of it was just a free use kink-related name people said for fun but using it to degrade and slutshame women is just terrible

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9w

glad u agree, it’s not like people use this one a lot but it’s like all the slutshaming words serve the same principle so i treat each one as one collective “word” yk

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

i’m a man you dumb fuck can you not read

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

So you’re a male cum dumpster, got it

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

You’re part of the reason I made this post stfu

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

And guess what, most of the replies disagree 🤯 WOW SHOCKER

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 9w

I’m not

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

Notice how a lot of the comments disagreeing have negative downvotes 🤯

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

And notice how a lot of your own are at a whopping zero

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

My original post is about to be 400

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

After a full 24 hours, where most relatable posts would be at 700

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

Oh my bad sorry I’m not chronically online to know that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

You don’t have to be, literally look at the new trending 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

So you’re concluding most people disagree despite the 400 upvotes?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Im concluding your take on the situation isn’t important, because it’s deadass just a word for a whore who takes a lot of loads, such as possibly yourself?

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Anonymous 9w

No thanks, I don’t consent

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

If it’s so unimportant to you go jerk off to another take and pls don’t assume strangers are whores it makes you look bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

You’re so easy to rage bait, I’m giggling and kicking my feet rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

I’m just disappointed that I wasted my time talking to an idiot

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Or are you disappointed in yourself for falling for rage bait? Did you not stop to think that maybe it was

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

The rage baiting goes both ways brochacho 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Kinda romantic how we got to this point 🥱

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Anonymous 9w

So… you’re a slut…

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Anonymous replying to -> #16 9w

You want us to call you that then?

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Anonymous replying to -> #21 9w

Sounds like projection, buddy. It’s OK to like taking big loads🥺

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 9w

What he said

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 9w

I feel like if you call anybody an incel you’re voluntarily giving up your right to complain about being called a cum dumpster

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Anonymous 9w

Why

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

The weird thing is like, she’s not even physically attractive, she just a hoe

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Speaking for yourself too replying to everyone rn and setting my notifications off

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

🙄😒 see what I mean, unbelievable, it didn’t even take 5 minutes

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

And here you are… arguing on the Internet😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

What have I argued about

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Also just why you always popping up everywhere bothering me bro. That is so creepy. What are you so mad about 😐

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Anonymous replying to -> #22 9w

Here’s a fire extinguisher 🧯 for your pants

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

I’m guessing you’re hurt by what I said you’re proving my point…

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Anonymous replying to -> #15 9w

The baby batter gonna get all over the floor tho

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 9w

Who said their ex was a woman? Men got buttholes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Nu uh

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Anonymous 9w

Even if that was true, be better not bitter; like a true man.

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

Imagine being proven wrong then pretending like you were rage baiting the whole time instead of admitting that you were wrong. What a chud😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 9w

🫪🫪🫪🫪 😂😂😂😂😂 it was a woman but aight

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Anonymous 9w

For every girl that has sex, there’s a guy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 9w

You uh, sure about that?

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 9w

We call those man whores

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 9w

Should’ve been lesbian gif not gay men, tsk tsk tsk

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 9w

You dont know what those cowfolk identify as.

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 9w

Where are yall coming from😭 it’s too damn late for all yall to be crawling out

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

But the fact that everyone here started talking about girls just shows

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

Also that you have to say man whores as if whores implies being female

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 9w

I was gonna say usually men aren’t cum dumpsters but I guess nowadays there’s definitely some out there

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 9w

Because the term whore was created for females, like the word bitch comes from female dog but a man can also be a bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #14 9w

And that’s already derogatory towards women. No word was created for men. Only to put down women who have sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #31 9w

Can we just kiss already 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 8w

Respectfully, once you cheat, man or woman, you can get called whatever and you have no right to get upset about it

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Anonymous replying to -> #23 8w

And ??? Take yourself to US politics if you feel that strongly about talking about the big issues.

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Anonymous replying to -> #34 8w

I do

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Anonymous replying to -> #33 8w

THANK YOU‼️

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Anonymous replying to -> #33 8w

So not only you disrespect people but you want to have an excuse to say slurs is what I’m hearing

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Anonymous replying to -> #35 8w

Just keep it in the bedroom

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 8w

Yeah Fs I guess I took the post too literally

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 8w

Why ppl unhappy with that

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Anonymous replying to -> #36 8w

Thats hot as hell, I can’t even lie

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

“Slurs” 🙄🙄🙄🫪

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8w

Stfu cheater

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Anonymous replying to -> #17 8w

So by the logic, if you’re hurt by being called that term, it says something about you as well, huh?

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 8w

🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 8w

Lmfao idek you gang 😂

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Anonymous 8w

Larping as a lesbian to have an excuse to bash gay men with an objectifying slur is an odd tactic ngl

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Anonymous replying to -> #42 7w

by me, i hope!

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 7w

😳 are you a total slutttt

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 7w

i like the sound of that 🤤

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 7w

yea! :3

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Anonymous 7w

men genuinely believe they deserve to live

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Anonymous 7w

Boooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 7w

Can I dm you and talk to you later? I have a class to go to but I’m hard af rn reading this

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 7w

:(

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 7w

Bc twink has, at the moment, become basically what the word gay was in the 2000s: a socially acceptable way to be blatantly and casually homophobic, even though many used it without thinking even once about the deeper implications of using it as an insult. In this context, it’s very clear to me and likely the other downvoters that this was intended to be derogatory towards effeminate gay men, whether that be very minimally so with little thought put into it or very much so

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Anonymous replying to -> #24 7w

Same

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Anonymous replying to -> #45 7w

It can also be used derogatorily towards straight feminine-presenting men. I don’t say that to defend it (I largely agree with you) but rather to build off of what you wrote

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 7w

Very true!

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Anonymous replying to -> #45 7w

Girl I’m a twink, I will use the word twink as much as I want and in any context, you can debate me on cum dump, that’s fair, but do not make assumptions about people online, they’re often unfounded

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 7w

Gay men can still be homophobic. All you have to do is look at Milo We can still have a conversation about the homophobia surrounding certain terms. You don’t have to fully agree and scrub it from your vocabulary, but you can definitely hear out the critiques.

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Anonymous replying to -> #29 7w

Ok so you’re definitely an exception, but you do realize you sound exactly like the straights online using that word, right? I had nothing to go on about anything about you other than what you said and based on the sheer amount of straight people I’ve seen use that word like gay was used in the 2000s, it was safest to assume you were one of them

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Anonymous replying to -> #38 7w

Bro really made a a second acct to dirty talk himself in the comment section

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

This guy fucks 👆

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Anonymous replying to -> #48 7w

virgin btw

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

Lol your honesty and transparency is appreciated

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7w

says the virgin

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Anonymous replying to -> #13 7w

Can we use it to degrade men?

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Anonymous replying to -> #26 7w

and mouths 👄

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Anonymous 7w

ya i bet ur biggest fear is being liked by women

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Anonymous 7w

hate women so much you’d rather be a pos than have discipline and good values

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Anonymous 7w

it’s the vibe buddy

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