Why you so mad don’t you think it’s only fair why only woman* get the double standard I as a man want to hate you too

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Anonymous #1 5w

When spousal abuse stops rising around superbowl season i'll stop saying it

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Anonymous #1 5w

lmao are you gay

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Anonymous #3 5w

Woman mentally abuse men and no one talks about it

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Anonymous #4 5w

I’m happy married buddy just cause my wife is great doesn’t mean all other women suck

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Equal treatment but you can say all men are bad but I can’t say that about women so nop no equality

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Anonymous #1 5w

Fighting fire with fire never helps anything dawg. If you resort and stoop down to the same standards as the people that annoy you, you’re not better than them at that point.

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Anonymous #1 5w

get off yikyak old head

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Anonymous #6 5w

Exactly I don’t want to be better then them me being better then them gets me nowhere if you hate me i will give the same energy

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Anonymous #1 5w

Or you could just ignore them and go on with your day. Just a thought

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Anonymous #6 5w

Yes that used to work but now it’s everywhere women talk shit about men everywhere I work with women what am I suppose to do quit my job you don’t even begin to understand how normalize this is I wish ww3 were to happen to we can all go back to the Stone Age and see how good they do when everything isn’t handed to em

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Anonymous #7 5w

I’m 23

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Anonymous #1 5w

old head

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Anonymous #1 5w

Generalizing all women doesn’t help your case either dude. Not all women hate men. And didn’t you say earlier that you have a wife? Kind of a weird way to talk about women being in a relationship with one. Say and do what you will my guy, it’s not gonna make things any better and rudimentary thinking like that won’t help you very much in life either.

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Anonymous #6 5w

exactly this. not to mention men are not the oppressed in this situation. if you have to bring up the struggles of men to take attention away from the clearly more intense treatment of women in society and in relationships, you know you’re in the wrong

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Anonymous #6 5w

I don’t think you geniuses are understanding anything my point is not that I want to generalize all women my point is that I will be doing exactly what is being done to me if a women says all men should die and whatnot what am I going to do as a man sit there and agree yup yup girl boss kill the men that protect you yayy

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Anonymous #10 5w

Not taking attention away from anything are you even reading nobody said women don’t struggle but what you’re saying is that men don’t. Why am I prioritizing women’s feelings when men also have em, why am I supporting women for saying all men should die, are you crazy

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Anonymous #8 5w

But we don’t. Because its disrespectful.

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Anonymous #11 5w

who is we, your id says M or F 😂

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Anonymous #11 5w

I am genuinely confused on how it is disrespectful. Is it an odd synonym to use in most situations, yes, would I be offended if I got called a male, no I wouldn’t care

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Anonymous #9 5w

This is too logical stop they will break

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Anonymous #11 5w

and since when was it disrespectful ? since social media told you it was ?

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Anonymous #1 5w

Yeah I don’t get how this is such a horrendous and oppressive term

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Anonymous #9 5w

I do their favorite girl boss(secretly Zionist) TikToker has been telling this shit on repeat since 2015 on their screens

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Anonymous #9 5w

Well from my personal perspective, it feels like being put down as a specimen, like we’re some mystery that can’t be solved. And I understand there are women that are crazy but it makes me feel generalized with the crazy women.

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Anonymous #11 5w

Okay so we can both agree that generating is bad, that’s honestly what has gotten me to the point where I just want to give the same energy back, I’ve never hurt or will hurt a woman but for most that doesn’t matter all men are trash, how am I suppose to feel

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Anonymous #11 5w

And I don’t watch tiktok, you brainwashed assholes.

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Anonymous #11 5w

I’m not gonna lie that’s just not a great attitude to have. Obviously in certain contexts it can be used that way but if I use it that way and replace the word female with women what’s the difference?

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Anonymous #11 5w

well that’s it, a personal perspective 😂, i understand having one, that’s makes sense, but where does it come from, influence or actual personal experience. realistically, asking someone to exclude a word inherently makes another “mystery” if one woman doesn’t mind it, but another does

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Anonymous #1 5w

I understand that. A lot of women nowadays do say that but personally I think we should all respect each other for our strengths. There’s a revival of women who respect and want to have a relationship with men

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Anonymous #8 5w

I’m not saying exclude it, I’m for free speech. I’m just here to explain why it bothers me as a woman

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Anonymous #11 5w

that makes sense, but let’s not call someone an incel for using a word they’re familiar with and also aren’t using in a negative context, when we all know social media in the past 5 years has made it to be something else, knowing originally it never carried that weight, unlike slurs, insults, and other derogatory terms.

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Anonymous #8 5w

I never called anyone an incel?

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Anonymous #1 5w

bro the obsession here is crazyyyy typical male behavior

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Anonymous #12 5w

And this is why men are gonna put y’all back in the kitchen again if you don’t stop dismissing my point with this bs how about prove me wrong huh?

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Anonymous #1 5w

dawg u gotta relax, u make the counter argument look bad

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Anonymous #12 5w

and contributed not a single positive thought

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Anonymous #8 5w

😭male, I was not expecting to see that when I opened this app back up

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Anonymous #11 5w

the op did and if you didn’t agree with that, you had every opportunity to defer/reject that idea

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Anonymous #8 5w

Okay… so I’ll just reject that idea now

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Anonymous #8 5w

It’s the true do it’s not that am I radical that wants that I do not I actually like being in the kitchen myself it’s just the way women put men down will just create the opposite effect x1000

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Anonymous #9 5w

It was a little radical yes but you have to understand that this is what this society of treating men like shi is building it’s just a silent wave of hate that will eventually do what feminism did but in the opposite direction

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Anonymous #1 5w

but that just builds the other argument when u say something radical and no one can tell if its “truth” or not, u seem like the extreme they’re talking about and might even align with said person that caused them to feel like that

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Anonymous #1 5w

Aye don’t get me wrong I’ve definitely had pretty much only negative outcomes when talking to women in a relationship aspect; I understand your point about feminism but I don’t think it is as extreme as you do.

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Anonymous #11 5w

righ, and reject the idea that everyone should stop saying female because YOU don’t like it, as well as the same way YOU reject the idea of being generalized with “crazy women”

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Anonymous #1 5w

Feminism freed women from oppression. You cannot do that for men, given that men are not oppressed.

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Anonymous #9 5w

Then what’s the moderate take for you?

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Anonymous #14 5w

The way I took what he said was the extremists I see online, I’m sure you have to, not feminists fighting for women in middle eastern countries that aren’t allowed to show any skin or they get beat up.

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Anonymous #14 5w

Also the “opposite way” of what feminism ‘did’ would be to make it so that people of different genders are not equal. If you wanna do that, go ahead. I vote for misandry this time over misogyny. Switch it up a lil.

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Anonymous #14 5w

*white men aren’t oppressed

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Anonymous #14 5w

Feminism has not freed women from nothing y’all now slave to instead of your husband your boss who will still be a men and if we talk about feminism liberating women go to the Middle East and tell me how that’s working out for them

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Anonymous #8 5w

I am not a white men and I promise you I am more free then my white friends in their own country

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Anonymous #8 5w

Wait no no, again, I’m for free speech. Its your constitutional right to say whatever you want but you’re missing my point. My only point is that the word feels disrespectful, and I’m far from the only woman who believes that.

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Anonymous #14 5w

I’m not saying I want to do that, but this is what’s building up on the right since woman couldn’t take their wins without asking for more or at least waiting for everyone to adapt radical changes aren’t good and that’s what you did and how we ended up we’re we at

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Anonymous #1 5w

I think in both directions people r off the rails. I didn’t come in here wanting to talk about all this. I guess my point would be if you think a guy who says the word female is a incel and an oppressor you need to reevaluate yourself

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🤓

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Sure buddy hope that makes your year. Still stand by the fact that this mentality will not work for you in the future specially seeing how people are starting to not care once again things aren’t gonna get better and I assure it will affect you worse then it will to me

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Anonymous #11 5w

i am too, and i see your point, you and many other women feel disrespected being addressed as a ‘female’, when you can be in any other way. but thats personally what YOU and others don’t want to hear, so if you don’t like it, doesn’t mean the rest of the word has to not like it either or not use it. because you have an opinion doesn’t mean everyone has to agree on it, but hearing it and understanding why helps, agreeing is not required though

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🫤

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Anonymous #9 5w

exactly

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SYBAU 🔥🔥

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Anonymous #8 5w

as in u #12 btw

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Do not fall for the rage bait every society has a few of those

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GGYSM 🔥🔥

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Wrd cause u hard at work rn😭

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uh oh, we ain readin allat

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I have two jobs and do school full time trust me I know more about my future then you do. So let’s not get ahead of ourselves here you don’t know me and I don’t know you but I assure you. I am Happier then you’re right now

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I got 2/3 down, wanna help me check off the 3rd?

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I am also getting paid to be on yikyak see how that works you don’t know me I’m literally sitting on a couch getting paid

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Anonymous #8 5w

I just wanted you to hear and understand, not agree, you keep on making assumptions. I think we’re at an understanding that we don’t quite agree but we can see each other’s perspectives. For me, it feels demeaning and unnecessary, and for those who say it, it might not be that deep. And I understand that you just want to say what you want to say and that your point is that throwing insults is in unnecessary in response. You’re right about the last part. I just don’t think the word is respectful

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Lmfaoo stop😭😭

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Anonymous #11 5w

exactly YOU don’t, hopefully your doctor scratches out the F and writes W instead ❤️

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You generalized yourself with that comment earlier I don’t think you understand

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yk wat dey say bout yall now

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Anonymous #8 5w

Alright… that’s a different context and now you’re about to make me regret trying to be nice

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Anonymous #11 5w

ur right #2 said nigga and i was havin a field day

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Anonymous #8 5w

Nah get that guy, I got you

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Anonymous #8 5w

Not everyone identifies or is identified that way by others

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NIGGA CALLED ME MAD CAUSE U SAID NIGGA BEING A WHITE BLONDE AND LIED ABOUT IT 😂😂😂 no way there’s ZERO accountability dawg 😂😂

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BOOOO SHE SAID NIGGA

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shhh stop sayin nigga mayo monkey 😂😂

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huhhhh?? dawg get back to work ✌️✌️😂

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Anonymous #20 5w

Stop that’s too logical it will break em

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Why can he not say the n-word I though we had a first amendment right in this country

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den press dat big ass button on the right side and turn it ova 😂😂 nigga

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Anonymous #1 5w

I think he’s black, and like, I also think he’s a guy as well

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Anonymous #1 5w

Next you’re going to say “don’t say my hair is curly that’s offensive; it’s wavy”

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Anonymous #8 5w

Yo wtf has this convo spiraled into 😭

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Anonymous #1 5w

because IT is arguing about not sayin female but is using a word that’s historically is a “slur” and if IT is saying female is derogatory the nigga has to be in that for them

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Anonymous #20 5w

How is male any less offensive?

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Anonymous #19 5w

It is not just like saying female isn’t offensive either

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Anonymous #1 5w

But it clearly is… people get offended…

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Anonymous #19 5w

Yes and people also shit everyday so what’s your point I should give away my rights to make other people happy their rights for a reason yk

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Anonymous #1 5w

What the fuck are you talking about? Nobody is asking you to give up any rights lol what

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Anonymous #19 5w

#1 a lil radical, he does that sometimes

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Anonymous #19 5w

Do you not read what you post I should stop saying stuff(limiting my free speech) first amendment right btw) so others won’t get offended like what

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Anonymous #1 5w

What rights are you giving up by not reducing people to their sex in conversation?

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Anonymous #19 5w

What is the difference between them in your opinion. I think it’s the context and words around the word female that make it bad. Like what is the difference

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Anonymous #1 5w

You’re an idiot if you think telling someone to not say rude things is limiting their freedom of speech.

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Anonymous #19 5w

He is referring to the 1st amendment I believe

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you’re*

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Anonymous #19 5w

Do you see the irony here my point is not whatever my speech is or what I said, my issue is with the fact that it’s a limited to my rights even if I don’t be mean to people which I am not believe or not it’s still my right to chose whatever the hell i want to say because it’s my right do you understand

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Anonymous #9 5w

Yeah it’s the context obviously, but that same standard is applied to male.

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Anonymous #19 5w

How explain it to me

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Anonymous #19 5w

Yes it is

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Anonymous #1 5w

No one is signing a law saying ‘don’t say this word’, people are just saying it grosses them out. This is literally the ‘ick’ forum. Grow up.

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Anonymous #1 5w

Yeah obviously? But does that mean you’re going to walk around calling people fat just because it’s your right?

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Anonymous OP 5w

Literally like 💀 nobody is coming after your first amendment right we’re talking about a word and if people like it or not. Is it really that hard to understand why some people don’t like it?

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Anonymous #19 5w

And that’s not what I’m saying but you telling me I shouldn’t is already limiting my free speech do you see how that is. It’s up to me to decide what I say or not and that’s how it should be and always be.

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Anonymous #1 5w

Yeah it is up to you. But that doesn’t mean I can’t tell you not to say certain words. That’s how it is for literally everything.

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Anonymous #1 5w

There’s nothing limiting someone’s free speech by telling them what they’re saying is offensive….

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Anonymous #1 5w

You can say what you want but that doesn’t free you from the consequences of saying it

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Anonymous #19 5w

Jesus Christ my guy so it’s okay for the people that don’t like it to censor me because they do not like it. Like what do you not see the double here I do not care if society doesn’t like it I shouldn’t feel scared to say what I want because of societal consequences because that is literally restraining my freedom of speech

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Anonymous #19 5w

And that’s effectively restraining my freedom of speech

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Anonymous #1 5w

That’s not how freedom of speech works

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Anonymous #19 5w

So freedom of speech doesn’t mean I am free to say whatever I want. Wha does it mean then?

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Anonymous #1 5w

It’s freedom of speech by a legal standard, not freedom from societal consequences. You can’t cry that your rights are being violated when people get angry about what you say.

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Anonymous OP 5w

Yeah this

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Anonymous #1 5w

You’re essentially arguing for the right to say slurs without ppl getting angry. It’s not an exact comparison but it’s along those lines

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Anonymous OP 5w

This is correct. You will not be held legally accountable unless your speech incites or is perceived as violent; if your were to say I’m going to murder you it would technically be assault. If you say the n word for example you won’t get arrested but you may get slumped.

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Anonymous #25 5w

Ngl you are using the redpill analogy wrong here.

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Anonymous #19 5w

I don’t care if people get angry. That’s the thing that’s how it should be say what you please.

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Anonymous #1 5w

You clearly do care though… you started parading around your first amendment rights because people disliked what you said.

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Anonymous #1 5w

Well yeah I agree with that but they also have the right to get mad and say you shouldn’t say that. You can keep saying whatever after they say “you shouldn’t say that”

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Anonymous #9 5w

I group “men” who decide to ragebait and argue with women who are expressing they don’t like something instead of having an actual productive conversation with the women haters. Just like I do the same with the men haters.

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Anonymous #9 5w

Exactly, and they’re allowed to think poorly of you for that. I’ve seen jobs not hire college students because the rhetoric they used during these years proved that they were immature. Societal consequences do not fall under the 1st amendment.

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Anonymous #25 5w

I mean in the Matrix movie the red pill brings Keanu Reeves back to reality. So unless your point is we should all live in a make believe fantasy you are using the term wrong.

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Anonymous #9 5w

But wouldn’t you agree that if you get punished for speech that’s effectively not having free speech? If not we should’ve had an amendment saying( freedom of speech unless someone else gets upset about it) or it should’ve been limited back when it was created you. You tell me how things like that aren’t a violation of the first amendment if I get fired for saying Susan is fat, then effectively there isn’t free speech.

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Anonymous #9 5w

Redpill is in reference to Andrew Tates community of “alpha males” aka incels. Not the matrix movie 💀

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Anonymous #1 5w

It’s freedom of speech under the law, not from society and the people around you. If you are saying things that make your coworkers uncomfortable then your boss has a right to fire you.

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Anonymous #1 5w

Bragging about your life…yo, get this man a medal. He’s not the first and he definitely won’t be the last to sit here on yikyak of all things and try and win an argument that he’s losing no doubt, that he started. Pack it up lil bro, you’re not tough.

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Anonymous #1 5w

You getting fired for being rude and saying negative things about a coworker is bad for the health of the workplace. They’re well within their right to fire you

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Anonymous #6 5w

Huh are you slow the other person started it, I’m just saying if they wanna take it there we can

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Anonymous #1 5w

If you got legally punished (ei. Taken to court for swearing at someone) that would be a violation. But that’s very different than a societal reaction to your words. You have to grow up and face the consequences of your speech.

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Anonymous #1 5w

Well working for a privately owned company is different and there are a bunch of things like Human Resources Management and regulations that go into that. While it is unfortunate that the majority of the public would rather shut people up they disagree with than converse with them is the sad reality we live in.

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Anonymous #19 5w

But isn’t that effectively limiting my freedom of speech. Because now I have to make sure I don’t call Susan fat or else I’ll get fired. Just yes or no is this not a limit yes or no

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Anonymous #1 5w

No. It’s not a legal limit on your free speech.

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Anonymous #1 5w

No

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Anonymous #1 5w

Didn’t you learn in school your free speech is never truly free? Why aren’t you complaining about “substantial disruption” decisions in schools?

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Anonymous OP 5w

So can I sue for getting fired and I will get my job back?

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Anonymous #9 5w

So I shouldn’t had been fired correct because I didn’t do anything I just said something

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Anonymous #1 5w

You can’t threaten to kill the president, isn’t that effectively limiting your freedom of speechv

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Anonymous #1 5w

Omg NO bc it was not legally disrupting your first amendment right. It was a social consequence and not a legal one.

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Anonymous #19 5w

Yes it is

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Anonymous #1 5w

If you told your boss you thought he was stupid incompetent and a loser. Would you expect to be rehired because you “didnt do anything”

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Anonymous OP 5w

So you’re saying losing your job because of free speech isn’t a consequence that should be protected by my first amendment right. I should be able to sue

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Anonymous #1 5w

You have to prove it was unreasonable using the language of the law and precedent

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Anonymous #1 5w

The things you say might not have legal repercussions but that doesn’t mean they don’t impact you. It’s immature and irresponsible to think that way.

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Anonymous #1 5w

You can sue, that doesn’t mean you’ll have luv

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Anonymous #19 5w

My argument is that at its core it’s still violating what was suppose to be freedom of speech limiting people speech because of fear of consequence is limiting freedom Of speech because what I can say is being limited do you understand?

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Anonymous #1 5w

Rules are different in workplaces especially privately owned ones. Calling Susan fat could be grounds for being fired or more likely a write up or something similar because it would be considered creating a hostile work environment.

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Anonymous #1 5w

I am saying that. I’m saying if you say something that is worth getting you fired (ei. Harassing coworkers, making them uncomfortable, insulting your boss) then they are within their rights to fire you. It’s not a hard concept and I’m done explaining the same thing seventeen times. You’re not five.

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Anonymous #1 5w

Here is the 1st amendment quoted. “Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, or of the press; or the right of the people peaceably to assemble, and to petition the Government for a redress of grievances.” Y’all do what u want with it ✌️

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Anonymous #9 5w

And I’m not saying that you’re wrong, I agree actually but what I’m arguing is that any type of punishment because of speech is a violation of the first amendment or else it should have a subsection with things that should be limited or can’t be said. the amendment it’s not being followed the way it’s literally written and by default making me getting fired a violation of it.

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Anonymous #1 5w

Getting fired for speech is them firing you for a harmful action, less so the content of the words themsleves

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Anonymous #1 5w

Right but what’s that got to do with someone telling you not to say a word because it’s offensive.

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Anonymous #1 5w

People get on trouble for what they say at work because it’s disruptive to the workplace. You would be getting fired for disrupting the workplace not really the words you say

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Anonymous #25 5w

that’s where red pill blue pill is from, the Matrix, my bad for not binge watching Tate clips.

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Anonymous #9 5w

Lol I’m pretty sure that’s where Tate got it from 😂 but he spun it and made it weird

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Anonymous #25 5w

Ah wrd 😭 well then the ppl u are referring to probably understand what u sayin then

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Anonymous #1 5w

All that free speech and you still choose to sound like the worst person

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Holy shit 75 yikyak liked im such a diva like you sound slow

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Anonymous #9 5w

because when referring to ANIMALS you typically say they are female. you don’t call dogs or cats or monkeys “girls” because for them they are FEMALES. you are essentially calling women animals when you refer to them as females whether you think you are or not

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Anonymous #26 5w

Stupid take I call my dogs boys and girls not females. Try again

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Anonymous #20 5w

Or will you be offended now if I call you a girl too?

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If 10 people disagreeing with me are is where I broke I done deserve to be alive everyone is entitled to their own( incorrect) beliefs if don’t matter imma sleep the same at night

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Anonymous #1 5w

I think you have a fundamental misunderstanding of what feminism is

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Anonymous #1 5w

Radical changes like not enforcing expectations on to people due to perceived sex. Shoudnt the wins for women also apply to ending the toxic masculinity around men created by patriarchy? Or should women just take their wins half baked?

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Anonymous #19 5w

Feminism seeks inherently to free people of either sex from the intense cultural pressures to be and act a certain way because of it. That’s inherently what feminism is, so unless you stand for traditional gender roles that should be enforced socially then you misunderstand the nature of feminism.

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Anonymous #19 5w

Well women are now forcing their expectations on men so it’s just a flip just another form of oppression and it’s going to backfire. So when I say women should’ve taken their wins and let society shape around it. In a natural way

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Anonymous #1 5w

That’s your opinion but I disagree that’s happening like that

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Anonymous #19 5w

Really is that what feminism. Now answer me this, do you think that’s how feminism has been applied in society or do you think it has gone the wrong way

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Anonymous #1 5w

Feminism has been applied differently ways over the years. The big misstep with second wave was treating femininity as a something constructed socially. It alienated lots of women who were reacted to that sentiment negatively. Here we are now in modern feminism where we add in the way femininity is treated in males, the older acceptance of masculinity in women. And move to stop placing these expectations on everyone of how they should be.

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Anonymous #19 5w

Then you would say that if feminism was so good which I believe it’s not a bad thing at heart. But the way society(woman) for example have taken advantage and overplayed their hand and that’s how we ended up with trump and probably much worse to come. Im just saying at the day it will backfire much harder putting over half of the population down

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Anonymous #1 5w

Maybe in some cases but you can’t generalize like that

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Anonymous #1 5w

maybe you should learn what free speech actually means before whining about it. unless op is threatening to arrest you no one is infringing on your right to say things without the GOVERNMENT interfering

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Anonymous #8 5w

idc its funny to watch u guys cry

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Anonymous #31 5w

Dm me

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Anonymous #29 5w

why should i .

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Anonymous #9 5w

Because it reduces people from their humanity, instead of women-which reminds us of the human quality, female means you’re just a vagina.

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Anonymous #20 5w

“I like to be dense bc I get a hard on by being a dick”

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Anonymous #32 5w

I get what ur saying but I think the words someone puts before and after the word female or woman is more impactful on their intended purpose.

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Ts like the fast and furious series, I think it finally done then bang another movie

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Ah welcome back, what ts even about again 😭

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Anonymous #30 5w

This, lawyers, and doctors I understand

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Anonymous #31 5w

Absolutely, and lawyers and doctors referring to patients/clients makes sense

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Anonymous #1 5w

damn you were doing so well (literally begging you to learn how plurals work)

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Anonymous #32 5w

More like “I like to cry about shit that doesn’t make sense because I want to be a victim”

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Anonymous #8 5w

Don’t say male either that makes me as a man feel the ick

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iktr queen!!

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Anonymous #1 5w

You are such a little bitch snowflake holy shit 😭😭you wanna be a victim sooo bad. Nobody is saying you can’t call women females. They’re saying that if you do it’s offensive and this will not like you for it. It IS objectively offensive because a tree can be female. A fly can be female. You are actively reducing women to their reproductive organs when you call them females and that’s why it’s a problem (same with “males”) it’s fucking weird that’s why it’s an ick

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Anonymous OP 5w

Dm me

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Anonymous #31 5w

Dm me

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Anonymous #23 5w

Dm me

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Anonymous #12 5w

Dm me

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Anonymous #1 5w

Dm me

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