Fr. I understand boundaries and everything but I would want my friends to tell me if something is going on and knowing they are heard.

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I loveeee knowing shit, tell me your life story, shit talk anyone and everyone, cry to me about your shitty boyfriend, I’m all ears and invested.

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Trauma dumping and sharing problems are not the same tho

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i think there’s a difference between confiding in a friend and sharing intense trauma at an inappropriate time. like if we’re at taco bell and it’s not the vibe pls tell me later i still love u tho

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Want their bad romance as well?

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A lot of y’all do not understand the difference between discussing your trauma in conversation versus dumping it at random/inappropriate times. I get trying to be considerate of it, I really do. But, after the first couple times or so, once it becomes a habit, who on earth wouldn’t get tired of hearing about the same problems over and over again especially when you have your own to worry about!? The world does not revolve around a single person and their problems. Everyone has problems

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Dang I started this whole argument on that post💀

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Man some of you guys have never had a friend who ONLY tells you how horrible their life has been and constantly drains you and it shows

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