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Icks 3w
When I disclose my mental illnesses to men and they sexualize it. “Oh that’s ok I like em a little crazy”, “ok but mentally ill women are freaks in the sheets” SHIT LIKE THAT IS SO GROSS GET OUTTTTT
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Anonymous 3w

I’m an actor and the amount of times that older women have said “oh so you can act like you love me then” is so disgusting 😭 mind you: I am a minor.

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Anonymous 3w

OP and #1 I’m so sorry and that’s horrible.

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Anonymous 3w

Men sexualize everything too much. Im a man n even I think it gets outta hand.

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Anonymous 3w

Stop telling men your weaknesses lol they’ll always use it against you

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Anonymous 3w

Yess fr I have rlly bad self harm scars and men have def called them “hot” before

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Anonymous 3w

I can’t even cum bc of fucking Serutraline

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Anonymous 3w

“I love your beautiful princess disorder” bro what if I stab you

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Anonymous 3w

Ok but what you got mami 👀 that kinky bpd or that stank 💦 don’t wash ur ass 🍑💩 depression….. lmk

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Anonymous 3w

What’s the proper response to something like that? Pity?

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Anonymous 3w

It’s true thooo

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

EEWW so fucking weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Nah it rlly isn’t my antidepressant makes it so difficult

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Breaking news: man thinks of sex too much to have normal conversation

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

No but it’s important information to disclose if I’m getting to a point with someone that we may date… obviously..?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Appropriate responses would be things like “oh ok! How do symptoms manifest in you that I should be aware of?” “Do you typically want company or alone time on a particularly rough mental health day?” Etc etc

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Dude it’s so common it’s insane. And sometimes they say it unprompted. Like so many men have hinge prompts that are like “I go crazy for” and they fill it in as “girls on lexapro” or some bullshit like that

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

yuck

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Follow-up question why are you a minor?

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 3w

Maybe empathy? Cordiality? You could try to imagine a time you struggled and tell her about it? Are u good

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

ya no deadass- how are u on here as a minor💀do u mean ur 17 still?

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 3w

Why am I a minor 😭🙏 idfk I was born in 08 (so I’ll be 18 this year at least)

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Anonymous replying to -> #10 3w

Yeah I’m 17, but these comments have been happening since I was 14 or so

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

that’s disgusting im so sorry you had to deal with that

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Anonymous replying to -> #11 3w

Mental illness is not a weakness. And a healthy relationship requires both parties being honest with each other. If I were to become manic around my boyfriend and I never told I have a personality disorder, that could be very concerning

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