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Men need to be lonelier fr. a BALDING, CONVENTIONALLY UNATTRACTIVE 19 yr old boy SA’d me after telling me he loved me; then admitted he lied about loving me and that I’m not worth improving himself for, and now posts SMOLDERING SELFIES with poems on ig.
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Anonymous 5w

fuck that guy

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Anonymous 4w

“I got robbed by a minority therefore all minorities are bad.” That’s the logic you are operating on fyi

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Anonymous 4w

pack it in

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

LITERALLY

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Lmao someone is insecure

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Hate to break it to you buddy, men are not the minority.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Lmao that’s the takeaway you got from my comment? Are you using weaponized incompetence or just that ignorant?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Weaponized incompetence? Babe you’re the one who compared my SA to “I got robbed once.” Please. If your reading comprehension was stronger than your reach, you’d realize I was calling out your flawed analogy, not pretending men are a demographic minority. You made a bad comparison. I corrected it. Stay mad 💅🏼

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I’ll dumb it down for you then 😘 if one bad dude makes you sexist, then one bad person of color would make you racist 😎

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Criticizing a systemic pattern (male entitlement + SA) is not the same as blaming an entire race. Sexism = power dynamics + patterns. Racism = power dynamics + prejudice. Your analogy collapses immediately. I can’t be ‘sexist against men,’ I’m literally a woman describing what happened to me. Try again, king.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

furthermore the only reason you are willing to say all men are bad is because it’s more socially accepted then saying all members of x race are bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

“Systemic pattern” is not an excuse to hate an entire gender. I’ve been SAed by two women but I don’t hate women. I’d like you to elaborate what you mean by “systemic pattern”

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

For the record, I never said that I hate men. I said that they should be lonelier; and you are proving my point. Your slip is showing babe, the insecurity is loud.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I guess I was doing a bit of reading into you too much but I was more saying your generalization of 50% of the world’s population is pretty ignorant.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

btw you have yet to elaborate about “systemic patterns” hope this helps!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

You’re the one who invented a generalization I never made. I described my experience as a woman and you turned it into ‘50% of the population.’ That’s your projection, not my argument 🤷🏼‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

And since you keep pretending not to understand the systemic part: women calling out patterns of male entitlement and assault isn’t the same as stereotyping a race; it’s acknowledging something that happens consistently across cultures, statistics, and lived experiences. If that still feels ‘too deep’ for you, that’s on you b. I pity the woman that has to deal with you.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Ah yes but you said men deserve to be lonelier not just the dude who SAed you. That’s a generalization sweetie

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I’m gay btw so try and insult me with ad hominem another way

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Also careful with the logic you are operating on implying that SAing is just a power thing that happens in nature sounds like you are saying its natural

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Baby did I say that you had to be WITH a woman?? I'm referring to any woman that has to deal with you, like how ashamed your mother must be. Not once did I say it was natural. You are projecting again, because you are insecure. And maybe I did make a generalization, but once again, you're proving my point. No one should have to deal with behavior like this, i.e., men like you should be lonelier.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

It’s kind of embarrassing when you pretend that you didn’t make a mistake instead of just admitting that you misspoke. You said “the woman” this meant like a partner because you assumed I was straight because “how can anyone except a straight man not agree with me”. I don’t fault you for assuming that because I did mention being SAed by women but when you make a mistake own up to it; even I’m getting embarrassed for you now sweetie

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Someone’s trying to distract because they realized that their argument was being torn apart…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

She says after picking particular points to argue against instead of all of them

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

If you would shut up every once in a while, maybe I could hit all of them. What haven’t I covered it seems to be irking you so?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

Also if you think you are winning this argument that’s adorable

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

You’re looking a little desperate here, buddy

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