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People who genuinely make “gay” their entire personality. Your only personality traits cannot be gay and mentally ill 😭
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Anonymous 1w

This is what my belief always has been: idgaf who you sleep with or choose as a partner. I just don’t want to be involved at all. Just be a normal member of society. And I won’t care about your bedroom activities

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Anonymous 3d

Same with people who making being straight their whole personality. Can’t even make a gay joke without pissing them off.

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Anonymous 1w

As a person who happens to be gay I support this

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Anonymous 3d

Dogwhistle ass take

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Literally. If I ask you about yourself and the only thing you can think of to say is, “Well, I’m SUPER gay…” just don’t talk to me, cos you might be one of the LEAST interesting individuals I have ever spoken to. 1 dimensional background character ass personality.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

Yep. Just annoying.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3d

What does that mean?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

It’s so corny too. Like girl

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Usually when I see this take it's a bit of a motte-bailey situation which is basically where there are two positions your statement could refer to. The one you're really getting at is more offensive/harder to defend, but when you're challenged, you resort back to the version that's harmless/easy to defend. Homophobes will agree with this take bc they see any gay person simply being openly themselves as "making it their whole personality", but if someone accuses you of homophobia (1/2)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

for having this take then you can just say it's about a few bad apples who make the community look bad. Btw a dogwhistle is basically coded language, especially in a political and/or hateful context

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

But it is about the few people lmao. I’m literally a lesbian 💀💀💀 I actually wrote this specifically about my step cousin who pretended to be gay and trans for almost a year cos she thought it would upset everybody, and she made it literally her whole personality the whole time, and she recently transitioned back to being a girl and it pissed me off cos now I feel like they won’t take me seriously if I come out.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

I literally know nothing about this bitch because for the longest time it was “I’m gay and mentally ill! 🤪” and nothing else That was all she ever talked about. Ever.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

I was so close to adding an extra comment where I said that idc if you're also gay bc I still don't think posts like this work. I wish I did

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