And people who will use any excuse to ignore said advice because they just want pity.

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I’m usually pretty direct w pple who do that and confront them like "why do you keep asking for my advice on this if you aren’t going to take it" or refer them to a professional in the topic instead of engaging if they do it like 3 times but I've been told I’m really blunt 😭 bluntness gets the job done idk

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