
Yea when I was younger I made a big deal about it but came to the realization if they are always gonna say it no matter what and I don't even care anymore deadass if I'm not being called it and if they don't say the hard r then idec for example my bf whitens she says it very rarely and im like be idec ha
Ik you didn't mean it in a rude way but u not even any sort of black so u really don't get what it's like to just hear that and stuff and bein tha type of situation like yes i understand tha yk its wrong but it gets to a point where u don't care and idc if my bf says it might not sound okay to a white woman but it sounds okay to a mixed girl.