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Icks 14w
When you tell a guy you were SAed and he responds with “when will it be my turn?”
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Anonymous 14w

Ew what 🚩

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Anonymous 14w

Bro what is that response, I don’t get how that can be a dudes first thought

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Anonymous 14w

frat boy liking the idea of SA is definitely not a new concept unfortunately, and they live up to the awful reputation

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Anonymous 14w

Question for the lawyers out there: If she gave a date, time, any answer besides never, is that consent?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Yeah…. Needless to say we don’t talk anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

He’s a frat boy, it’s in his blood

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Well I am sorry about what happened to you, and proud of you for being strong enough to have a real talk about your past.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Thank you so much 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

No means no, hesitation means no, anything other than a yes, means no. Pretty straight forward

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12w

Legally it's not. What he did is harrasment, but is a question. If she engaged in the affirmative that's technically consent. But to what degree is my question.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 12w

What they meant is that assault constitutes any sex contact that isn’t given verbal consent. That’s what my detective told me because “implied consent” is iffy to prove

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

People don’t really do explicit consent. It’s almost always implied

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

Yes but if you’re accused it’s hard to claim implied consent

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

I see what you’re saying. I did ask a lawyer buddy of mine. He basically said you can’t preorder consent, verbally. If they were to write it down maybe, but they can always withdraw consent at any moment.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

That is very true, in my case I had originally consented then withdrew it

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