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Icks 2w
When men only want blood children. Yes. I know this doesn’t apply to all men. But it’s an ick when I do find it.
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Anonymous 2w

Tbh i’m fine with going into a relationship and adopting, but as respectfully as possible I don’t want to play stepdad with anyones kid. It has nothing to do with the child at all and I feel sympathy for that kid but it has everything to do with the mother or father WITH the kid

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Anonymous 2w

As someone who is adopted, I don’t get why people just want blood children. Like, we aren’t less, we need love too

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Anonymous 2w

the beautiful thing about human beings is that we all have opinions, that doesn’t make others right or wrong. some people want blood children, others don’t. and guess what, that’s ok!!

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Anonymous 2w

Lemme guess a single mom?

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Anonymous 2w

THEY MUST CONTINUE THEIR FANTASTIC BLOODLINE!!!!!!!

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Anonymous 2w

Yall don’t let no one bully you into caring for a kid that’s not yours. It’s not everyone’s “calling” but if you do decide to adopt you have to be 100% in

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Anonymous 2w

Actually when anyone (women included!!!) just wants blood children. Being a parent shouldn’t be solely genetic.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

And no I do want to adopt a kid it’s actually one of my goals in life but nobody wants to deal with a single mom

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

shut up

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Simpleton

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

immature loser

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Sounds like you’re a single mom 🫵😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Not bouta entertain somebody w the emotional compass of a rock have a blessed day

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

HAHAHA

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

dude you're a fucking idiot lmao, i hope you get back exactly the negative energy you put out into the world

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

I spread love and joy but I don’t tolerate idiocy and you reek of it. If you can’t look and analyze a situation from both sides and comprehend the why’s and get in your feelings I will call you an idiot and laugh in your face 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

lmao look who's back "nobody wants to deal with a single mom" bruh nobody wants to deal with someone who judges people without knowing their situation. keep your ignorant opinions for yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Aye I sympathize w them but in no way shape or form you should guilt somebody for not wanting to deal with a single mom. It’s as simple as that if you can’t wrap your head around that maybe you should learn to put yourself in others shoes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

maybe you should articulate yourself better in the first place then people wouldn't think you're a bad person

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

your comment came across very demeaning

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

No its a comprehension issue on your end I made a statement saying that nobody wants to deal w a single mom and you went and exploded with a clear lack of an inquisitive attitude so no don’t be presumptuous and blame it on others work on yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

bruh don't present yourself as an asshole and people won't think you're an asshole, it's so simple. #5 presented the same idea in a totally different and way more conversation/debate friendly way. try harder next time 😘

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

and if telling you to shut up is exploding, you might be too sensitive for this app bud

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

No you’re just presumptuous I even made it clear that I do want to adopt kids myself you just lack self control and a curious mind

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

adopting kids has nothing to do with the statement you made single mothers, you're just not articulate. people are not mind readers, if you can't explain your opinion well that's a you issue. but glad to know you, apparently, don't actually degrade single mothers! this is going in circles and i have better things to do✌️

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Heyyyyy. Just got on after working in the lab for a couple hours. No. Not a single mother. I do aspire to adopt children and provide a stable household for them to grow up in, regardless of if I’m married or not. I think we should maybe take a step back from personally attacking each other and find recognize that we shouldn’t ever blame children for the actions of adults. They need families. Not that I think either of you two are.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

did you mean to reply to #3...?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Yeah. It was just a long chain and I must of misclicked

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